| Author: Rajagopal T D 23 Feb 2009 Member Level: Gold Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
* Allow the child to mingle with others.
* Teach the child to help others.
* Make the child understand things by practical experience, apart from theory.
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| Author: Mala 23 Feb 2009 Member Level: Diamond Points : 4 Voting Score: 0 |
Hi,
It is in the hands of the parents who take care of their children. They should be independence to perform as they wish. In the initial stages they are brought up by their parents who teach them what is good and what is bad. They would have had an impression on what will be the attitude of their parents and hence they often try to be like their parents. The parents should understand the interest and disinterest of their children and bring them in a proper way.
If a child is showing more interst in music, sports, athletics, dance etc., the parents should give him/her a proper training so that the child can improve its personality.
Best regards,
Mala.
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| Author: M. SHANKAR 23 Feb 2009 Member Level: Silver Points : 4 (Rs 4) Voting Score: 0 |
A very nice question and I would like to answer my best.
Firstly, parents must be very expressive about their love towards the children. It does matter and children don't understand silent love.
Secondly, you must believe in your child, listen to him as much as you can, appreciate, discuss and accept his opinions.
Never compare your child with others. Every child is gifted with certain skills - make efforts to identify such hidden talent and develop them.
Never criticize or punish your child in front of others. Never shout at them or throw things at them, when angry.
Parents must never fight amongst themselves, in front of child.
Children observe very closely and parents are their first heroes. So, behave intelligently before them. Never smoke or drink in front of children.
Children do understand - so don't hesitate to share your difficulty or problem with them.
Involve children in day to day activities viz., take them to market for buying vegetables, for payment of bills etc. Make them do small household chores and appreciate their work.
Spend as much time as possible with your child, listen to them, check their school work, guide them. With love, you can make your child do whatever good is required and help them grow into responsible citizens.
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| Author: drsachin eye retina surgeon 23 Feb 2009 Member Level: Diamond Points : 4 (Rs 3) Voting Score: 0 |
1. Love your baby & express it. Baby doesn't understand silent love. Praise for every good thing which he / she does.
2. Give him small gifts for some success in school / college exams. These need not be very costly but this will express your love.
3. Try to understand baby's problems.
4. For very small babies - Monitor their developmental milestones with the help of a pediatrician doctor.
5. Remember your baby is the most prestigious property for you. Support the baby to stand on his own feet.
6. Let them mix with other babies/ children from good, well-educated & cultured families.
7. Monitor if they are doing any wrong things / antisocial behaviour in schools / colleges.
8. Let babies get involved in sports. This will make them physically strong.Remember " A sound mind in a sound body".
9. Don't allow baby to eat junk food. Provide balanced diet which is rich in proteins, carbohydrates, vitamins,minerals. This is especially important in growing phase.
10. Don't make them introvert. Let them speak out everything. They should be extrovert & not shy. Let them do small household chores, small purchases in market. By doing this, they will understand importance of money.
11. Incultate habit of reading. Boks are " the best friends".Give good books by - Vivekanand,etc.
12. Ask them to develop interest in music. Music is a stress buster & a good way of mind relaxation.
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| Author: Nandini Tewary 06 Apr 2009 Member Level: Silver Points : 4 (Rs 4) Voting Score: 0 |
There are certain things to maintain by parents to built & develop child's beahvior & personality. kids are just like a piece of whie paper & parents are allowed to draw anythng they want as per their ability & capablity. But few basic things are there-
1.its obvious that evry parents love their children,express it & let them feel it but the thing is dont indulge them & pamper them.
2.Scold them if they are wrong & teach where they hav done mistakes but dont make a habit to do it evrytime.it obstruct to develop their personality
3. dont put constant restriction on certain things sometime allow them so that they can understand the difference between good & bad.
4.Try to understanfd their feeling.
5. Solve the problem tactfully so that they can accept you as a friend.
6. Trust them totally.
7. Involve them & allow them to participate in certain matters with you. It helps to build their confidence.
8. Ask their openion in matters related to parents so that they can learn how to take right decision.
9. know their interests & involve them accordngly.
10,Do the things in the way you want & tell them to do so that they can differenciate between do's & dont's.
11. Appreciate their work or creation what ever it may be to know their interests.
12.Teach them how to behave in different situation with different people.
13. Dont force them for studies.Monitor their activities & let them understand how important the study is for them.
14. Give them some times to spend as per their choice.
15. spend some time with them so that they can feel the importance of relation.
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| Author: Harish Jharia 06 Apr 2009 Member Level: Gold Points : 5 (Rs 3) Voting Score: 0 |
Hello Ronita,
First, you should know yourself as to how you want your child to be. Once you finalize the requirements then take the following steps:
• You should become a role model for the child.
• Protect her from child abuse and exploitation by others even from near relations
• Regularize her daily life viz time for waking up, food, school, studies, play, TV, going to bed etc.
• At the age of 8 months onwards, the child learns to speak. Be careful that she will just imitate your speech, tone and language. Hence, be a real speech therapist during this period.
• Teach the child to do her own jobs herself. Do not train her to become a big boss.
• Train her for quick reflexes rather than making her lazy, escaping work
• Ask the child to join you in your domestic chores. Do not be an attendant to her.
• The child needs your guidance, love, care and compassion rather than spoon-feeding and crutches.
• Work hard yourself and put your child to hard work.
Regards
Harish Jharia
6 April 2009
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| Author: santosh sharma 10 Apr 2009 Member Level: Silver Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
Hi
What i learn from my mother is that she have concer of all my needs but she never fullfill my wants.
So you must understand the diffrence between "NEED and WANTS". If really want that your child hae respect for others and understand the value of things which he is getting from his/her parents than you should take care of this most important aspect of life.
you yourself check wether your child is not angery for small - small things in life or if you don't fullfil his desires he become upset.
Other point is that you should not bound your child with too many rules and regulations, because after some time whenever he get freedom he is going to be a bed guy which seen in may cases.
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| Author: Ashok kumar 10 Apr 2009 Member Level: Silver Points : 1 Voting Score: 0 |
hi....your are right..
1.teach your child good thing
2.allow him/her to play,watching t.v but with some limltation.
3.do good things before them.
4.create book reading habits instead using computer.
5.do some exercise,yoga before them . they will do it automatically
why iam telling exercise,yoga is they will help in controlling anger, maintain good health etc...
without health what will they do?
there are many things apart from these and i know you too know it!!!!!!!!!
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| Author: Dr.Sanjeev(Sandy) 10 Apr 2009 Member Level: Platinum Points : 4 (Rs 4) Voting Score: 0 |
Hi
Parenting is a real challenge and once a person becomes a parent his goal gets limited to make his child a good citizen having a honorable place in society.
Lots have been said by some experts above abd I dont want to repeat the same just want to say that dont realize your ambition through your child which pressurize them to much that they loose their innocence at premature stage.
Dont burden your child in order to compete the rat race of the society. Let them grow in clean and free environment and your home is the best environment for them.
Give them a bit freedom and behave like a friend as now a days children listen more to their friends than parent.
I literally want you all to go through the article The art of parenting by Mr. Amit tondon as I have been adoring him for this article.
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| Author: Hemaa Raani B 10 Apr 2009 Member Level: Gold Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
Hi Ronita,
I saw lot of suggestion given by my friends and would like to add a little more to it as my suggestion.
1st Suggestion--> Leave your Kid to Live his own life
2nd Suggestion--> Precaution is good but over cautioned might stop your Kid thinking on his/her's own
3rd Suggestion--> Teach him/her out of their mistakes instead of punishing them for their mistakes
4th Suggestion--> Reward them when they have done even simple targets
5th Suggestion--> Don't just be a Parent but be a friend to your kid so that he/she can easily approach you
6th Suggestion--> If you are an working person don't forget to spend time with your Kid
Hope that it helps.These are little information that I gathered from my mother.
Regards,
Hemaa Raani B
ISC-Member
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| Author: pravesh surana 04 May 2009 Member Level: Gold Points : 2 (Rs 2) Voting Score: 0 |
Hi
We have all heard of the kind of parent who feels and believes that it is his effort that has produced the genius kid who has managed to win several trophies, or the parent who believes that it is something that he has done that has created this monstrous personality in the form of his child.Parents are the most important people in any child’s life.The parents are responsible for the birth of the child and the child’s care and education[child education] from that point.Mother’s tend to have a natural emotional bond with the children, while the fathers tend to be less emotional and more practical.In the perfect parent and child relationship, the parent functions as a role model providing love and support for the child, while allowing the child to explore his environment and develop independence.Self image is the way your child looks at himself. When he looks in the mirror and sees what he likes, he is happy. When he looks within himself and likes what he sees, then he is a self confident person. To achieve this, you must help him think of himself as a person who is worthy of being loved. It is when there is a lack of a good self image that problems start to crop up in your child’s life. Your child must therefore be taught to value himself, get along with others, and to perform well at school, and these values are often based on his own self image, or how he sees himself. To achieve this, you must listen to his cries when he is an infant: the more number of times you have responded to his cries, the more self worth he will have.
Regards,
Pravesh Surana
Mumbai
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