| Author: Farid Akhtar 14 Sep 2012 Member Level: Diamond Points : 3 Voting Score: 0 |
I think we need to decide on our own and that is most important. You can only guess but you can not be sure that what is right or what is wrong. Its better to decide rather than keeps think pending due to fear of wrong doing in any job. Everyone learns from the mistake but important thing is to utilize the time and use it wisely and quickly. You can discuss anything with your closed ones and you will get little clear picture about it whether it was right or wrong. Also your previous experience can be handy for decisions making.
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| Author: [Anonymous] 14 Sep 2012 Member Level: Bronze Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
Hi,
Its true that in our childhood parents take our every decisions which is good and which is bad.Later as we grow up they wont come with us everywhere. So it is necessary for you take your own decision and judge whether it is wrong or right.
In life always there is ups and down. So before taking any decision try to take its pros and cons.Later decide whether the pros are beneficial for you.
Unless you don't take any decision of yours its difficult for you to lead your life in future. There may be many people who will try to take your advantage.
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| Author: Chitra 15 Sep 2012 Member Level: Gold Points : 3 (Rs 3) Voting Score: 0 |
No one can be certain that all the decisions taken by them are right. Even an expert can go wrong. We all learn from our mistakes and experiences. As you said we are born and brought up in the shelter of our parents and they take the best decisions for us. But at times their decisions can also go wrong but somehow they will tackle it as it is for their kid. They know how to tackle any situation from their experiences. Same way we all learn from our experience. When we start to walk, we fall down but gradually we learn and now we do not fall while we are walking. Same applies here too. Initially while making important decisions in our life, we might go wrong, but don't worry, we learn from our mistakes. the next time we are asked to take a decision, we will remember about our past incidence and take a good decision accordingly. This time our decision will be correct.
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| Author: Nithin 15 Sep 2012 Member Level: Gold Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
Dear Friend,
We cannot know that the decision we took was right or wrong until a bit of time passes on. What we can do is learn from our past mistakes and make sure that they are not repeated when we take a decision in the future. It is best to follow your mind in a very tight decision-making dilemma .
Thanking you,
Nithin Antony
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| Author: Akarsh 15 Sep 2012 Member Level: Silver Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
Dear friend,
Decisions don't come with a key to success. There is always uncertainty in our minds that have I done this correct?
Someone has rightly said that take decisions, stick to it and make it right. so what enables you to do so?
The answer is belief, one should have a self belief in himself/herself that they are doing right. Eventually your mind will start singing the tunes of your heart. All I can say is that believe in yourself and things will turn your way.
Regards
Akarsh
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| Author: [Anonymous] 15 Sep 2012 Member Level: Diamond Points : 3 (Rs 3) Voting Score: 0 |
This is one of the good question for ourself - how to know that the decisions we are making are right or wrong?
It is one way typical to answer but just observe yourself that God give us decision making power, we shall know the two different paths, one is right way and another one is wrong way. Now, decide yourself and make decision which path you would like to go. Parents always teach us right path due to their experience in the past for both the ways, parent does't want us to do the same mistake (if any done in the past by parent). Ask your conscience before you do something, whether it affect other for our benefit or not.
Avoid ego, selfishness and partial thought to avoid wrong decision, so you will know that you have taken right decision by avoiding those.
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| Author: Dhairya Khant 15 Sep 2012 Member Level: Gold Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
There is no sound or any type of signal from air that help us to make a decision. We cannot decide that our decisions are always right. We are only hope that the decisions taken by us are right. All the persons in their life by mistake they can make wrong decision. As we grow, we can make a decision after hundred times of think.
To know our decisions are right or wrong, we should take advice from a good friend or our parents. We can also think about that decisions, how to help us or others that decision and effects of that decision to others.
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| Author: Bhakti Savla 17 Sep 2012 Member Level: Gold Points : 4 (Rs 3) Voting Score: 0 |
It is important we make decisions in the following manner:
-Give enough thought before taking a decision.
-Measure the pros and cons by taking advice from elders and experienced people around you. At the same time, do not take advice from too many people as different people will give you different opinions and you will often be left confused.
-Never blindly follow an advice from someone. Ponder over the advice and do what your heart says.
-If you take a decision on your own after proper consultation and listening to your heart, you should never regret it, irrespective of the consequences. It may sound wrong at that time, but in the long term it may turn out to be a good decision that helped you learn few important lessons in life.
-Always back your heart and instincts and remember that "Whatever happens, happens for the best".
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| Author: JyotiS 26 Sep 2012 Member Level: Diamond Points : 4 (Rs 3) Voting Score: 0 |
If we as human beings ever knew what would be the outcome of our present day decision, then we would have become god. God has given us the brain to think and logically evaluate any situation before taking any decision. Our past experiences also plays a key role in this. But in spite of all this we can go wrong.
We cannot plan and make everything perfect but we can of course try to do so.
Before taking any decision, first think quietly for a while and try to figure out what you really want from this decision. Also, try to evaluate what are the possibilities of it's going wrong; Can you still handle it if it turns out to be a total failure?
Consider every pros and cons before taking decision.
Also, decide before hand that whatever may be the outcome, you will not regret it later. at least, a decade from now , you won't regret not doing it.
No decision made and steps taken in life ever goes in vain; Every decision you have made in the past has helped in developing your present personality.
Also, always remember that it's not your simple decision that plays a lead role in life but your fate, hardwork and dare are equally responsible; just like a game of probability.
So cheer up. No one is perfect but we cannot give up trying to be the one.
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| Author: Vikas Babu 26 Sep 2012 Member Level: Silver Points : 1 Voting Score: 0 |
There are many decisions we are taking in our daily life. But before taking any decision we should think about that person who will most affected from our decision. We should keep your self into the situation of that person and think twice about our decision.
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| Author: manisha pande 29 Sep 2012 Member Level: Silver Points : 2 Voting Score: 0 |
The decision taking is the most important phenomena in everyones life. We have to take many decisions in our day to day life. The decisions taken in the past, may be proved right or wrong. The wrong one can affect badly where as the right one can make us more successful. The decision taking is the art. One has to take decision whether right or wrong but taking any decision is more important.It is more harmful to avoid to take decision.It can be well judged while going through the process of taking decision. We can adopt the path which is less harmful or which is having less risk. The risk is the also important in success. If no rik then no progress. But we can choose the path which is having less risk.
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