How convince my parents for inter caste marriage
Planning an inter caste marriage? Wondering how to convince all parents for this marriage? Find advice from experts on this page.
I am 20 years old Bengali girl in relationship with a Gujrati boy. The problem is that both of our family against to our relationship in no way they want me in their family and my family also does not want to accept him. My boyfriend family worried that if they accept me in their house there would be problems in their Samaj. The boy wants to be with me but he is now doing B.E. and 1 year is left to compete his study.
I am the only child to my parents. In 2010 my mother died and my father married again. He does not love me not does he want me. My uncle has taken my responsibilities from childhood. After my 12th result my uncle started to search for a groom. I told that I want to do study but they did not listen to me. They want to marry me according to their choice. I have no right to choose my life partner nor of doing further study.
I love my boyfriend and we have a 2 years relationship. He understands me and I want to do study after my marriage. He supports that. Now my boyfriend is doing a job an earning 5000 and we want to marry each other. I know that after completing his BE he will get a better job. But my family does not want to hear anything about him thinking that he will not make me happy after marriage. My family does not want me to do study or marry my boyfriend. He is wiling to take responsibilities of my study. I have already wasted 1 year of my study and do not want to waste any more time.
What should I do? How can we both handle this situation? How can my boyfriend convince his parents and how can I convince my family to permit this marriage? How can I get back to studies?