How to feel comfortable and live happily after marriage?
Facing problems in having physical intimacy with your wedded partner? Find out how you can reignite the spark in your married relationship.
I'm a 26 years old girl and just have an arranged marriage, both of us are well educated. It's been four months to our marriage and we still are not in physical relation. I'm not able to respond and sometimes rather than enjoying it, I feel like irritation.
We got engaged before six months of our marriage. 15 days after engagement were so beautiful and enjoyed a lot. After that he reduced communicating. We were at very long distance that we couldn't meet several times. I asked him many times what's wrong with him but he replied with 'there is nothing much to discuss, I'm busy all the day and you are not able to keep me awake.' I ignored this at that time as I came to know he is very shy and quite reserved.
Due to our own works we need to live apart and meet on weekends. We do talk on phone regularly. He is so mature to handle each and every situation nicely, very helpful and caring. But I'm not able to connect with him as I'm not feeling that attention and love from him. He don't think that there is any problem in our relationship but still has now started taking some efforts towards me. But because of such previous experiences, now I'm not able to respond him.
Every night I start crying with my mind full of negative thoughts of indifference. Now at the weekends I don't want to go to meet him just because I again need to say 'No' to him.
This is the most crucial period of my career and because of all this issues I'm not willing to do anything and just wasting my time. I want to come out of this situation asap.