Misunderstandings between my parents and my in-laws
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I recently got married.
After I accepted his love, we had 3 years of long distance relationship. Finally the day came when our parents accepted and fixed our marriage date. My inlaws demanded for dowry. Although my parents were not interested but accepted to give dowry for sake of my love. As the wedding day was coming closer, my inlaws started more demands one after another. My dad accepted for every thing they asked.
One fine day, my parents discussed all the things that my inlaws demanded in front of elder people from both the families as custom and as evidence.
This is something that my inlaws didn't want to disclose to every one (as they were showcasing as that they are not taking any dowry)
Here they started to maintaining distance with my parents.
We are very happy couple and my inlaws are also good to me. But when the topic comes about my parents- my husband and my inlaws never respect them and always try to showcase a distance.
They never come to my home and do not talk to my parents.
They allow me to go my home but they don't allow my husband come along with me.
I just wanted to erase the misunderstandings between them.
How can I bring them closer?