How to convince girl's parents for love marriage
Finding it difficult to convince parents for love marriage? worried about how to proceed to get the love of the life? On this page, Experts shall provide you with guidance to prepare a plan of action.
Me and My girlfriend both are working in IT company. We both were friends and it turned into love. When I proposed to her, she took her mom's permission and she said yes for me,. I was the happiest person in the world. Slowly her elder sister, younger sister and her brother got to know the matter. They didn't oppose it much.
Some days later my girlfriend asked my caste and I told them. I am from Karnataka and currently I am working in Hyderabad(Two state love story).
In Hyderabad for my caste there is some other name, which is lower than my girlfriend caste.
Two years went fine, now she is 26 year old, it is time for marriage. I spoke with my parents they told me to wait for at least 6 months because my elder brother is not married and we are searching for an alliance. I conveyed the same thing to them.
Problem is: now her father won't accept my caste. My girlfriend tried a lot to convince him, but he can't. Now the whole family is opposing and, no one is supporting. My girlfriend's father has beaten my girlfriend. He also hit himself to the wall, he beat to his wife too. Basically my girlfriend's dad is having too much caste feeling. They are thinking about prestige and status.
Its been 3 months and same story repeats every day. The main problem is that she stays in the home. Parents are torturing like anything, scolding, give some failure love examples, brain washing her every day. She is fluctuating. sometime my side, while some time the family side.
I tried to speak with her mom, sister and brother but they are not at all getting convinced.
My girlfriend is fed up with this and she has decided to go with family side. But we love each other and we can't imagine our future without me/she.
My girlfriend is not ready for registered marriage.
Reasons why her family is opposing me:
1)Caste (Mine is lower caste both the caste are BC)
2)Money: I don t have money, I don't have home in Hyderabad, I have home in native, I have family in native.
3) Mine salary is less than her salary.(I am earning 35k+, she is earning 45k)
4)language problem, culture problem, she can't understand my mother language , But I know her mother language. Both are working in IT, I do stay life long in Hyderabad.
5) They are asking if jobs goes what is the future plan. (My plan is 10 years IT,then some business).
6)My girlfriend want family support, If she marries me they won't support me its like ours is separate life .
Please give some suggestions. I can't alive without her. I can't imagine my life without her. She loves a lot.
How to convince them?