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I had an arranged marriage and married just 3 months ago. In these 3 months me and my wife have had many arguments and fights. Even our parents are involved to solve the things but that doesn't work. My wife said many wrong words and abused me and said wrong words and had great arguments with my mother also (my father left us for another women and married her 14 years ago and since then my mother can't able to take stand for herself). I always tried to support & told what to do and what not to my wife (like- I told her things not to do- her aggression is very high. I told her to not get angry. Sometimes she uses bad language and abuses me in joke. When she cannot not hear the words properly, without confirming the word she replies instantly which proved bad. She didn't remember the words she said for long and claims she didn't said it all. I told her to - get socialised with my family. She always used to live in bedroom instead of living with family members which is not favorable, try to remember the things, don't use ever such bad languages and don't ever abuse me, first hear properly then reply). All these kind of stuffs made my life like spoiled whenever I tried to clear the things, she replied ( lecture, my head is spinning, headache etc.), her parents also supporting in some certain way.
Now my mother also don't want to live with her.
Me and my mother feels like stuck & and life become like hell I want to leave her. Any suggestions?