Behavior of son towards parents after marriage.
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I am finding there is vast change in the behavior of my son after his marriage.
I am a single mother who raised my children since their teenage. Gave good education and raised them amongst all odds. My son was diagnosed with special child who had difficulty in learning. When I decided to take divorce, his father never tried to take possession of the children and never contributed towards education and marriage and property.
I feel had I not raised them, today my daughter would be a cook and son a driver to his father's car and assistant.
After the engagement of my son I am finding a vast difference in his behavior like:
Whenever I happen to go out station, he invariably used to come to drop me. Now he says I can't come. You will have to make arrangements by yourself.
I am transferred to different city where I stay alone and he doesn't bhave time to speak to me over phone to enquire about the health etc.
Spent a lot of amount for the marriage. His earlier desire was to have a simple marriage where's after engagement and nearingbdays of marriage started telling me it's only once we get married. Better take some loan and perform the marriage in a grand way.
I did so. Later I happened to win a case of ejectment of tenent and got the independent house. Now he stays with his wife there but expects me to spend money for only their comfort. And expects myself and my daughter not to interfere in the renovation of the house but we both should contribute. Of late he told me that don't make me open my mouth and tell you what is the quantum of hatredness he has against me. Any work entrusted will not be carried out , reason he doesn't have time.
Is it really I am expecting much from him?
Please let me know how to console myself..