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Forums » IndiaStudyChannel » Group Discussions »

Friendship betwwen a man and women,is it possible or not?


Posted Date: 09 May 2008      Posted By: Vellamji      Member Level: Gold     Points: 1   Responses: 36



Friendship betwwen a man and women,is it possible or not?
Comment your opinion out here along with your personal ancedote,if any!






Responses

Author: neyha    09 May 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

Ofcourse it is possible.It is not necessary that the relationship between a man and an women as to be love or they have to be married or anything like that.Frienship is an amazing relation that can be shared between two people without any limitations ,it can be cherised by anyone and can bring a lot of happiness .So i would diaagree with people saying that it is not possible


Author: Princess    09 May 2008Member Level: BronzeRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

In my opinion it can be maintained as long as the guy and girl are pure in hearts.there is a proverb that says"good friends can end up into lovers"i feel it is not true.


Author: Aromal    10 May 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

Ofcourse it is possible.Frienship is an amazing relation that can be shared between two people without any limitations ,it can be cherised by anyone and can bring a lot of happiness.The chance of marriage may come into their minds but they will move on with it.It is not the fact that men are considering women only as a source of love.There is a proverb that says"good friends can end up as lovers".But I feel it is definitely not true.


Author: kondapalli    11 May 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

It is possible only when both are open minded. one should not cheat another till that time it is possible.both should share their feeling freely then their friend ship will be endless journy


Author: nikita    13 May 2008Member Level: BronzeRating: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5     Points: 3

it is actually possible...
but there has 2 b an understanding that the 2 of them wont get serious regarding each other..
if 1 of them bcum sewrious regarding a relation it might hamper both of them...



Author: shoba    17 May 2008Member Level: SilverRating: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5     Points: 3

Upto me if friendship does not affect the personal life to both of them its OK.Otherwise my opt is not to have friendhip.


Author: Vidya    17 May 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

Why not ?it is POSSIBLE.


Author: Saranya    18 May 2008Member Level: SilverRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

Hi Vellamji,

You have asked,

Friendship betwwen a man and women,is it possible or not?
Comment your opinion out here along with your personal ancedote,if any!

I think friendship between a MAN and WOMEN varies from a MAN and a WOMAN.
Is it not?

My opinion on your question is 'Yes, sure it is possible'

Regards,
Saranya...



Author: Swati    09 Jun 2008Member Level: SilverRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

Friendship between a man and a woman is certainly possible. In friendship gender doesnot matter. Friendship is all about how well understanding you have, its about how well you bond each other. The thing that matters the most is "Hold your friend's hand more tightly when he asks you to leave him/her alone".


Author: nivs    10 Jun 2008Member Level: BronzeRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

hi

friendship between a men and women will last till their last breath
it last as long as they leave their friends to have their own way of living.
another important one is society.only if the surrounding world understand their true frienship,it can last orelse it will last only as sweet memory.

best wishes,
kavipriya



Author: Kripal Singh    10 Jun 2008Member Level: SilverRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

it is possible and it is required also


Author: Raghav    11 Jun 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

Friendship is possible if they are in their limits

raghav



Author: Vellamji    11 Jun 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

friends,be elobrate and pou your views here...because this is the topic that requires practical explanations and justifications as well


Author: Raghav    11 Jun 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5     Points: 3

It is required also now a days because of the nature of corporate jobs. without having friendship with opposite sex, it is not possible to work in any office.

raghav



Author: Magic    12 Jun 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 1 out of 5     Points: 1

Yes,why not?


Author: Sra1    12 Jun 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5     Points: 1

From my personal experience .. Friendship b/n man and woman is possible ... its not the gender we need to consider for friendship its linking/bonding two hearts .. I used to be there on phone for all her problems and she used to be there for me .. frankly saying I discussed about my problems more with my friend than with my parents/relatives .. first we need to remove the feeling as male/female then everything will come in your way .. anyhow its my personal opinion it may differ from one to one .. thanks for intiating good thread ..


Author: shalat    12 Jun 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5     Points: 3

ya friendship between men and women is possible regardless if its befor marriage or after marraige,friendship is a bond which is different from any other relationship it does not requir any sort of gender discrimination,
friendship is higher than the gender issue ,on the other hand friendship also means to be there for a person in times of trouble ,so we cant say that he or she is of the opposite sex i wont help them ,it is that single bond called friendship which makes us stand for them in times of trouble and laughter ,so end of the day we are all humans !



Author: syed    15 Jun 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

As long as they are in control of their limits, it will be flourishing .

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Author: Deepika    17 Jun 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

Why not possible? Friendship between man and woman is always possible. Some may face problems after marriage. So it should be handled carefully. If it is a healthy friendship, their friendship should be respected. Hope everyone will respect true friendship.


Author: Riaz Mohammed    17 Jun 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 3 out of 53 out of 53 out of 5     Points: 3

FRIENDS!

Freindships has no BARRIERS nor BONDS! A man should choose a friend who is better than himself. There are plenty of acquaintances in the world; but very few real friends. Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.

What is so great as friendship, let us carry with what grandeur of spirit we can. Let us be silent, -- so we may hear the whisper of the gods. Let us not interfere. Who set you to cast about what you should say to the select souls, or how to say any thing to such? No matter how ingenious, no matter how graceful and bland. There are innumerable degrees of folly and wisdom, and for you to say aught is to be frivolous. Wait, and thy heart shall speak. Wait until the necessary and everlasting overpowers you, until day and night avail themselves of your lips. The only reward of virtue is virtue; the only way to have a friend is to be one.

My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life.

Friendship is like a prism through which the many variations of beauty are revealed in our lives.



Author: Raghav    17 Jun 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

I agree with Deepika. There can be friendship between a man and a woman. and it is required in this very fast changing world. otherwise we cannot survive in this world. Every day we have to work with people with opposite sex because now a days men and women are working in companies. So it is unavoidable, but one should be in his/her limits.

Raghav



Author: michael benson babu    17 Jun 2008Member Level: SilverRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

absolutly POSSIBLE,but IMPOSSIBLE!!!


Author: amit    20 Jun 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

friendship between a man and woman is always possible..at least from my personal experience i'd say that.. friendship is all about loving and caring our friend and it is not judged on the basis of gender of a person... and in today's world there is not any difference between man and woman in any field ,so no point of discriminating and according to my experience, girls have been more expressive and caring than boys so my favourinf this topic was quite certain..


Author: hima    20 Jun 2008Member Level: SilverRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 2

friendship , what is it actually is what our generation has to understand.
friendship is like water from a waterfall, which is free,which is limitless,and which is pure.
acc 2 me friendship is a relationship that binds souls and a soul does not have a gender.



Author: vinayak    17 Jul 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 3

yes of course it is possible.Friendhip means friendship it doent look upon whether it's man or women.frienship between man & women doesn't implies love only beyond love also their is life which is know as fiendship.


Author: Ankush Das    17 Jul 2008Member Level: PlatinumRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 6

Yes, Vellamji, it is surely possible. Why not. Men and women nowadays are very much understanding and it is not difficult at all. And friendship doesn't need much understanding to be made. Yes, Love is a different thing but having a girl as a friend is no problem at all. Don't worry, Vellamji, if some disastrous incident has happened with you in the past with a girl, don't worry as most of the girls are nice and understanding but there are exceptions everywhere and you need to be beware of those people. Just be your normal self.

Regards,
Ankush Das
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Author: Raghav    17 Jul 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 5

I fully agree with Ankush Das. The men and women today are very much matured and they know their limits because all are educated now a days. And as you said Love is different from friendship. A true friend will always be with you, and it is possible for a boy to have a girl as a friend these days. It is quite common now a days. And as Ankush Das said, most of the girls are nice and understanding now a days. So there would be no problem to have friendship between men and women.

raghav



Author: RajmiArun    18 Jul 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 6

Dear Vellamji,
A friend is a friend. Be it a man or a woman. A friend should be the person to whom you could run to and share your feelings, be it a sad one or a happy one. I am glad I have one such best friend in my life and he is a man. We have been friends for the past 20 years, right from our 8th standard. We both come from very conservative families, yet our friendship was respected by our parents. And now both of us are married and infact our spouses have understood our friendship and now we have become family friends. Even now we turn to each other to share our happiness and sadness.

A man and woman can definitely be friends and friends for ever. I am really proud to have a friend like him. He is definitely understanding than many of my woman friends. I can write pages and pages about the friendship we share.

Regards,
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Author: sachin    18 Jul 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 4

I also think that man and women make some good relationship in their life its good for him.
They also make friends
i think that relationship are very important for every one i also make relations with girls its help me very much they give me confidance and much good things in life.
I always prefer it enjoy life but in limit .
Sachin

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Author: Gitolekha    22 Jul 2008Member Level: GoldRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 5

Hi Vellamji, I do not think there is any problem with such friendship. I myself have many such friends, it has never been an issue.If you are a friendly person or your mental wavelengths match you will have friends irrespective of gender.In today's generation people are more open to informations which can enlight us and remove such conservativeness or shyness, shakiness. Maintaining a frienship is upto you, but there are no other issues.


Author: Baljeet    22 Jul 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 3

Friendship between a guy and a girl is very much possible but before marriage. A very good friendship between a guy and a girl is not tolerable by either of the spouse after marriage.


Author: m.v. subba raju    23 Jul 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 6

Hi Friends,

Friendship is a ship where two people travel together. There is no restriction whether the friendship should be between the same gender or not. A real friendship will not all these. If a relation is made in the name of friendship and really friendship then definitely that is wrong. For real friendship there will not be any gates. A friend in a need is a friend in deed. Friendship should not be made taking into care the same community, caste, gender etc. A feeling will appear after seeing a person that we should make friendship with them. But the friendship should be in a transparent manner. Then no problems will come. But if you get some problem you should not leave the friend. You should overcome all the problems. The person who does not have a friend their life will be like a A rose plant without a rose.



Author: dipak    27 Sep 2008Member Level: BronzeRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 3

Why not ofcourse possible up to some content because thoughts are always different so by making boyfriend or girlfriend you can ask them for help or help each other.


Author: dipak    27 Sep 2008Member Level: BronzeRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 0

may be


Author: m.v. subba raju    28 Sep 2008Member Level: DiamondRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 4

Hi Yaduvanshi,

I have seen your responses mentioned above, I would like to ask you whether these are your opinions or not. Because two messages are same. If you have posted all your own views then you might have struggled a lot for that. So, why don't you delete the duplicate messages. So that it will look more good.

Subba Raju, MV
Member, ISC



Author: Ajai Balaji    28 Sep 2008Member Level: SilverRating: 2 out of 52 out of 5     Points: 1

before marriage is possible,but after marriage depend upon their partners..


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