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- #572513Generally childless couples don't get the respect which they deserve in the society. Nowadays it has become very much possible for many childless couples also to have children by use of advanced technology like IVF fertility treatment etc.
The parents are naturally too much possessive about their own children and therefore they don't like their children to spend much time with other family members, particularly when they are a childless couple.
It is not a phenomenon of the modern society only. Even in the past many couples used to discourage their children spending too much time with their childless relatives and family members.
An couple is considered socially complete only when they have children. Similarly unmarried individuals are also not considered socially complete.
In my opinion, the elder brother of the couple having child, may consider getting themselves medically examined and availing modern medical treatment, if possible.
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- #572594The reason may be the one Mr. Kailash Kumar mentioned above. Almost every parent is possessive of their children. Parents love children to an extent that most of them won't like other people giving an advise etc,. to their children. Sibling relationship is likely to change after marriage.
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- #572606Yes it is due to possessiveness and they do not want children to compare the attitude also and hence they wanted the children to be aloof instead of mingling with other elder persons in the family.
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- #572609It is all because of the mentality of the parents. As mentioned by others, possessiveness is also a reason and another reason is the fear of the parents. There are some elders who behave in an immature way regardless of their age. Not all the relatives are same, some will influence negative thoughts into the children's mind and the children's way of behavior and the mind set will change easily on hearing others thoughts. So to avoid such issues many parents are not willing to allow their children to stay close with other elders in the house.