"No!" - Why can't rejection be accepted?
Ever wondered why a boy finds it unacceptable to be rejected by a girl or vice-versa? Let's find out the opinions of youngsters and adults alike for the reasons why rejection is difficult to swallow and how to deal with it.
There has been an alarming increase of boys stalking girls, pestering them to get married and, when rejected, stabbing them, throwing acid or even going to the extent of having them killed by a third party. There are also situations when a girl does not wish to enter into a physical relationship but is harassed constantly & molested for rejecting the advances, even raped perhaps.
Why is it that a boy can't accept a plain and straight forward "No"?
The other side of the coin is also to be considered: The boy is not interested in the girl who claims her love for him. He clearly says no, but the girl refuses to accept it, feeling that perhaps more time is needed for the boy to understand her feelings. When the matter is made with clarity, she goes into depression, threatens suicide, tells all & sundry the boy is not a good person, etc.
Why is it that a girl can't accept a boy's rejection of her supposed love for him?
Let's discuss the reasons for not accepting a straightforward rejection & how to deal with it in a mature manner.