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    Want to have a trouble free and fair life then never respond to rudeness

    Often our ideas and proposals or even our moves are not liked by everyone and there are trouble makers, teasers and even rave comment making people around us. Some times we get bowed down by the rudeness of opposite person from whom we have never expected such a reaction. If any one is rude to you, probably he may be truly revealing who he is. And in that context they completely fail to take note who you are. If this is best understood by all, then there wont be trouble at all in life from others observation on us.
  • #591839
    Why this thread is being avoided with no response from members or the editors ?
    K Mohan
    'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
    Even this challenging situation would ease

  • #591884
    I think trouble makers and teasers help us to go ahead. Kabir Das used to say Nindak niyre rakhiyo ,angan kuti chhaya ,bin sabun pani bina ,Nirmal kare suhay.By constructive criticism we go ahead.There should be persons ,who see our faults ,they give us chance to rectify these.
    Service to mankind is service to God.

  • #591887
    I agree with#5918884 it is necessary to have such people around who talk with rudeness but sometimes have truth in their words. .
    Sometime even our parents get rude to us that doesn't mean we should avoide them, or stay away from them.
    We need such rude peoples in live to push ourselves to cross our limitations and try to become someone extraordinary.

    "It is hardest thing in the world to be good thinker without being a good self examiner"

  • #591892
    Indu Singh at # 591884, may we have the English translation of that Hindi quote? Please make it a point to provide translation to quotes in languages other than English (which should be used only if it is absolutely necessary to put across a point) .

    Members are requested to continue with the main thread.

    'Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is Enlightenment'- Lao Tzu

  • #591909
    The English translation of that quote is We should keep close to our criticizers,because they help us in removing our faults .They always point out the things which are done by us ,but n't liked by them.We think on those points again if those are right in our opinion than we do n't care their critics ,but if there were mistakes ,we correct those.
    Service to mankind is service to God.

  • #591926
    Yes Indu Singh you made the right observation. Winners are those who allow critics to review their moves and performance and thus given the opportunity to develop themselves with silent revolution.
    K Mohan
    'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
    Even this challenging situation would ease

  • #591932
    There are so many people in this world who talk politely, with respect and in a soft tone but at the same time there are many who are rude and aggressive in their behaviour.

    It is the latter category which creates a state of conflict, fight and quarrel in case you start answering them in their tone.

    So the best course is ignore them or do not respond otherwise they will eventually create a scene. Unfortunately these people are not only rude but also are searching for opportunities to fight.
    For our mental peace and happy life we must not respond to such people.

    Knowledge is power.

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