Dr.sangumani, Psychologist, told in a meeting held at Madurai on 21st April that, 'Lack of Joint Family System is main reason for Mental Stress in many of us,presently. Love affairs without the knowledge of family members is never be a good one, Such love life may be pleasure for some and thorny for some. we ourselves have to decide which path suit to us.
We have to live collectively with our own relatives as such relatives are in the long run.
Similarly as organisation can't run by a single person. We can't call it an organisation. But some people in the organisation will say, I have done it. But it is not sounds good. Actually a team of people will do it. So we have done it is the correct concept.
A human being can't say, I don't bother about the society. I will do whatever I want. Everybody should care for the society. You may be very strong as a big tree. But society is a garden. In Telugu there is a saying. Even gold plate can't stand on its own. It requires the support of a wall. You may be rich. But you require support of society in your life. Be a tree in the garden rather than standing alone as a tree.
The same is the case with joint family as narrated by Mr. Pattabiraman.