'Thanimaram thoppaakaathu', 'siru thuli peru vellam', tihese are all sayings in Tamil which gives the same meaning that is what our author says. That is single tree cannot be a garden but collection of trees described as garden, similarly several drops creates a ocean. These are all told to live in groups not as isolated. Earlier there was joint family system which gave many benefits to individual couples as to save the separate rent, electricity,food items etc., (considering Diminishing Marginal Theory) and thereby the savings ability was possible. But nowadays in the guise of privacy, Independence etc., people develop stress, expensiveness less savings etc., in themselves with pride and loss the peace in their daily life day by day.
Dr.sangumani, Psychologist, told in a meeting held at Madurai on 21st April that, 'Lack of Joint Family System is main reason for Mental Stress in many of us,presently. Love affairs without the knowledge of family members is never be a good one, Such love life may be pleasure for some and thorny for some. we ourselves have to decide which path suit to us.
We have to live collectively with our own relatives as such relatives are in the long run.