To realize the pain of life and importance of relationships, please visit a hospital nearbyI read in one calendar that, 'everything is fun till it happens to us'. It is so true, as we never realize the importance of one thing till we are facing it personally. The people surrounding us may be really facing many problems which may appear funny to us and we may even neglect. We ignore our relatives, brothers, sisters and parents for silly reasons. By magnifying small things we set them aside totally from our life.
To realize the pain of other's and importance of relations, we should visit a nearby hospital as a casual visitor. We can see many people who, though possessing money, suffers much without any one around for help. Recently, outside ICU of one Hospital at Madurai, where my brother got admitted (I rushed to help him from Chennai on hearing the news), I saw one lady who was crying while complaining that her husband was very uncooperative and stubborn in maintaining good terms with relatives, even with his or her brothers and sisters. This lady, aged about 60 years, was suffering as there was no one around for help. Both their sons were in US and there was no scarcity of money. Here my brother's wife told how the money will not help them, 'when our blood is is hot we ignore everyone around us, but once our blood start getting slightly cold, we cannot tolerate the restlessness of life'.