'Not to know is bad; not to wish to know is worse'- African Proverb
When people come at you with their worst, you should come at them with your best (advice given to Selena Gomez by her mother, quoted in Time magazine.)
The greatest wealth in this world is mental peace and good health.
Live life Kingsize!
"A love affair with knowledge will never end in heartbreak" - Michael Garrett Marino
I am sure next year you will have something very happy to come up with a very cheerful birthday message.
I would suggest to take pleasure in your pains.Just today I got a relevant message in my whats app" 'God why you put me in troubled waters? Because your enemies cannot swim'. How nice and relevant it is! Just as our muscles get stronger on working hard with them, trials and tribulations suffered by us make us stronger than many others.
To appear as proper and factual, I would suggest to amend the second sentence in your thread as " I am one among many who might have seen more ups and downs in the life. ". There surely will be many others who would have suffered much more than you.
Gold gets its shine by the constant heating and beating it gets.
I hope you have read my small write up"Why Stone Idol In Temple Is Worshiped And Not Other Stones?"
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Caution: Explosive. Handle with care.
Honesty is the best policy.