It is always better to accept and take the conveyance arrangement provided y the host if it is an unfamiliar place for us. That way we will be avoiding loses of paying excess charges and avoiding frayed tempers and tension.
To arrive at any event on or before the scheduled time is welcome. But for that one need not be egoistic as not to accept the host's conveyance or other kind of help and guidance.
However, in Kolkata, the situation is still different. People take interest in the ceremonial part of marriage even now.
Non-violence is the greatest Dharma; So too is all righteous violence.
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'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease