If a guest is not called for food in time and left to take it alone he may not like it and make some unwarranted comments. So it is better that all of them are invited to meals so that no one feels ignored or unattended.
Knowledge is power.
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
It is the moral responsibility of the hosts to make the invited guests comfortable.
In a marriage it becomes all the more essential because marriage is the coming together of two families,getting extended as a large family by becoming closer and understanding and respecting each other.
As per the customs in each situation and context, one side family will be hosting the event and the other side family members and relatives will be considered as guests.
Except the key and main members of each side others would not have met earlier and the marriage occasion is the first such occasion to meet each other and come closer knowing one another.
So it will be convenient if the family members and relatives of the guests sit in a group so that the hosts can attend them easily and conveniently and may not miss any one of them in giving respects and regards and proper attention. The guests also will get opportunity to know the hosts more closer by more and more contacts and interactions. At the end both sides would have come closer and to an extent that each side sheds the formality and mingles freely one another.
If the relatives do not gather or seat as a group then there can be misses and misunderstandings which can lead to various unwelcome issues.
In present day marriages mostly buffet is arranged. All can have their food by serving themselves. Here also the host has to see that all varieties of foods all available to all the participants and go on enquiring the guests about the food and their likings. After all the people ate, the family of host will eat.
By any chance there is any problem in the supply some guests will understand and behave accomodatingly. But some people will try to create a problem. With small incidents the whole atmosphere will get spoiled and create unnecessary friction between the persons. So it is always advisable to take care of meals section so that the whole function will go smoothly.
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