These situations are not uncommon in the real day to day life and many times clash, confusion and misunderstanding is generated. Some people tread cautiously and give some opening remarks or background sentences before projecting the main statement and in such cases the other person has limited choices to response and a situation of interference can be avoided.
Knowledge is power.
From the message n the tread, what I feel is that if the person is 'opposite' the it is a conscious reaction not to understand the communication and to give a different meaning to the interpretation. One need not expect a sympathetic or favourable reaction from such person(s). If the other person is our well wisher or friend and he does not get us properly, then that means our communication skill is bad and we have to learn how to properly communicate.