During our interaction with different people sometimes due to difference of opinion or conflict of interest there is a situation of confrontation. This confrontation makes people to behave in rough and rude way.
The effect of this remains in the mind and when we recollect everything in the night before going to bed sometimes it haunts us. That is the source of pain and discomfort to us.
It requires a lot of meditation, positive thinking, forgiveness, controling ones temper etc to avoid such confronting situations in life.
So the things we learn when we were in school come to our riscue at such times. Praying to Almighty for forgiveness to all and give strength to us to progress in this world without confrontations and unnecessary conflicts.
Knowledge is power.
Not many people will think of what he did through out the day before going to bed. If everyone follow that and analize what ever they have done with a peaceful and calm mind, then definitely most problems and relationship clashes will be solved. But people these days do not have patience to analize what they have done and even if they analize, they do not want to accept their mistake.
When we think about that incident afterwards we feel sorry for our behaviour at that moment of time. So it is always better to keep our emotions under control and behave thoughtfully.
If not on that day night even after many days also if we sit and recollect those moments we will understand the issue and we feel bad for what we have done.
During our schooling, our teachers and our elders in the house will always tell us very good points regarding the facts of life and how we should behave with others and how to be good. But as we grow we will forget those teachings. But remembering them and practicing them is very important in our life.
We must call a spade a spade. We must state the truth, even if it is bitter/unpleasant.
Non-violence is the greatest Dharma; So too is all righteous violence.
Talking politely, understanding point of view of others, control in oral conversation by using proper and respectful words etc are the basic need for avoiding unnecessary confrontation with others.
Life will be brighter if we follow those things learned in our childhood and at the end of the day thank Almighty for the beautiful day we had.
Thoughts exchanged is knowledge gained.
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease