'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Don't sweat the small stuff and it's all small stuff.
In some developed countries it is possible as part time jobs are quite remunerative and one can manage his education as well as slowly establish a carrier for him. Another thing is in those countries everyone is not rushing for higher education until unless they have an aptitude for the same. So everyone does not require money for higher education there.
The students in quite early in their life switch to diploma or certificate type of degrees and start doing some skilled work.
Knowledge is power.
Parents should take care or their children till they stand on their own and even after that also if the Parents can afford. As per the age of the child the parents should change their method of approach. When the child is in primary classes you should teach him morals by telling good old puranas and stories and see that they will have a fear of God, ethics and morals. When they come to high school also you guide them in the same way and have a watch so that they will not go in the wrong direction. Once they come to higher studies support them and treat them as your friends and respect their thoughts also. Please give a little bit of your thought about the issue and ask him to take the correct decision. At the same time we should keep in mind that we should not give more money than required at any age and see that they will have financial discipline also.
But throwing them out without proper way to earn and stand may not be the culture of our country and I always feel this is the main reason for not having good family relations in other countries.