Marriages are made in heaven- Do you agree?Marriage is a broader concept. It defines the companionship between a man and a woman. How they deal with their life and wife and later the family. How the bond of love, care and togetherness makes them stay happy throughout their life. Marriage forms a bond which two people share with each other at happy and sad moments.
The marriage in our country is also of various types. First, one is arranged marriage, the second one is love marriage, then we haveInter-caste marriages- this type of marriage will also come into the category of love marriage. The last one is inter-religion marriages- they are only an example of love marriage.
Now, these divisions are also developed by we the human beings. Although parents do not believe in love marriages, they somehow manage to cope up with their child's decision and they approve it.
Arrange marriages are the ones where the complete wedding, the bride, and the groom are arranged by the parents and the family.
In love marriages, people are already in love and they marry with each other Inter-caste marriages are just based on different castes but same religion concept. Some families do not accept even this type of marriage. Last, comes the inter-religion marriage, where there is no scope that whether the marriage will happen or not. But, the bride or groom try to make up the mind of their parents, if they agree they are happy. And if they do not agree, they either run away or follow some other way to get married. Inter-religion marriage is possible only in the case of celebrities per my views.
My view is that, is it necessary that what parents decide for a child, will be perfect, like it happens in arranged marriages. Also, it could be so that if the child is taking a decision is more fruitful and happy than their parents. Still, the parents are just negative towards the thought of love marriages. Children are not allowed to fall in love in most of the cases. Parents strictly tell them such things.
My opinion is to talk to the parents of the boy's or girl's family first but do not a take decision quickly. If everything looks good then why is the problem.
Parents should be little calm on the decision of marriage and think from the perspective of their child also. What do you think of the current trend of marriages?