So we need to be careful with our words as our words can build or destroy a person. We need to appreciate people to lift their morale sometimes it can act as a catalyst for them and they can end up doing unimaginable things.
"Do not give up, things might not favour you always"
I have a relative who never appreciate the work of any one though the performance found high. His seven years old daughter once write her name by her own and showed with pride. This man instead appreciating or expressing happy , he told her,'it is better if you concentrate in your school topics'. The face of the child shrinkened with sad.
The best way is to pat expressly in font of others and point out mistakes in private .
Do what inspires you !!