One man's joy is other man's suffering, joy and sufferings visit families at different occasions. As long as we do not intrude or be insensitive to people, we can carry on with our celebrations. If the neighbours are good with interacting with people around them, we can visit them, extend our sympathies and offer our help and come back. We should not be sad or happy based on others but only our behaviour should be appropriate when people are around us. In an apartment complex, we should not have a pompous celebration with loud music and crackers when someone next door has just suffered a tragic loss. Children love the festival and look forward to the celebrations, so, when adults show a little restriction in their festivities out of respect for the neighbours, the children can be allowed to enjoy themselves, if situation permits, we can invite the children of the neighbours to our home to ease the pressure.