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    If someone misbehaves with you, shower him with smiles and good wishes.

    In our life, we come across many people. Some remain acquaintances and some become friends with us. There is always a possibility of some friction due to the difference of opinions. Most of the times they pass off and forgotten. Some remain within and not forgotten. There will be some attempts to spoil your cool by interfering in your affairs. They will be trying to insult you poking their nose into our affairs. It is the time for us to remain cool and not lose our temper. Always try to shower the person misbehaving with smiles and good wishes. Do not get angry and always think whether he is having a point for such behavior. This world is made up of different kinds of people and we have to learn to live with all of them.
  • #620551
    Nice and forgiving thoughts, we should try and be nice to whosoever we can. Even if one person is behaving in a bad manner with you, the best would be not to behave the same with them, instead, leave the place with a smile, let the time play its role and teach the other person.
    We should not lose our good identity, be what you are.

    Do what inspires you !!

  • #620555
    Very out of box thought from the author. When we are not at wrong foot and some one misbehaves, then how to forget him or her because they inflicted bad manners which has to be tamed and cannot be forgiven. And habituated person wont keep quiet as he knows our weakness to keep quiet. I do agree that by be patient and calm , we can teach them a lesson , but that is for those who have done the misbehavior for the first time in their life against us. What about who are habitual trouble maker who are on the prowl to create uneasy situations through which they get pleasure of that moment ?
    K Mohan
    'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
    Even this challenging situation would ease

  • #620559
    A very nice thought and if we can really implement this suggestion we will be the happiest person in the universe.But I have really seen some people of that nature. When somebody is trying to insult them, they keep smiling and they never bother about it. After the episode, he will say that a person is a good man but because of some pressure, the person may be talking like that. This type of people is very rare.
    Many people will get irritated if somebody is trying to misbehave. They will also try to irritate the other person and reciprocate in the same way.

    drrao
    always confident

  • #620606
    A Nice and noble thought, it is often very difficult not to get annoyed or avoiding getting back at people who misbehave with us. Initially, we may try to step aside but if it's persistent then we have to react to it. Often in my personal experience, I've noticed that if you do not show any reaction and just smile away the intrusion, then people mistake that would are a meek person and keep meddling with us regularly. At such times we have to be assertive enough to send a message that further intrusions and wrong deeds will not be tolerated. It is also important to note that people come in various sizes and shapes, if we were to take every single issue up, then we wouldn't have time for or own work and we wouldn't be left with friends and acquaintances. What we need is a calm and cool approach, what is the reason for the misbehavior, have we wronged them, is the person worth wasting our time? Once we answer these simple questions, then its easy to plan the next step, which would often be ignore and move on.


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