Children bring more happiness and cheer to the family. Temperaments also differ from person to person. It is the attitude and responsibility that make a family atmosphere good or bad.
Yes, definitely, at least in early days this happens when we just blurt out something in a sudden reaction and then feel sorry and express regret.It is just reality. But by and by these things disappear and the spouses become more closer and merge themselves.
The husband being the leader of the house sometimes have the prerogative to scold everyone who is not performing as per his expectations but in today's world, this is not going to hold as it is common that both the partners are earning and going out for jobs.
So it is wise to avoid such situations which may create misunderstandings and cause for quarrel.
Knowledge is power.
I always feel the arrival of the child ensures the transformation of a happy go couple to a set of mature and responsible parents.
In our lives, there would be ups and downs, different priorities and viewpoints, this often leads to a discussion or an argument that makes one of us lose our self-control and we shout at the other person to end to the episode.
But, later on. our minds are in a turmoil of repentance and are often angry with ourselves for doing so. With the passage of time, things return to normal often without uttering an apology.
Many times are a heated discussion, we use a little of emotional blackmail of the gift/treat trick that works well with children and adults sometimes too.