Pots and plates mingling leads to noiseThere is a saying in Malayalam " chattiyum Kalavum aayal thattiyum muttiyum irrikkum", meaning if pots and plates are used jointly they will create sounds owing to collision. This applies to human beings. For example, the simple issues developing between husband and wife. The issues will not be serious but through unnecessary talks it develops to a quarrel. If anybody try to interfere the advise from elderly people will be something like the above. Just leave it to them automatically it will get solved. Nobody tried to stop the sound produced by pots and plates.
In our life we come across several such silly matters which would have solved by those who created by themselves, are taken up by others and made a very complex issue. These types of sayings in local tongues have great implications and meaning.