Right now we are focussing on educational intelligence and we need to focus on emotional intelligence and maturity too. The anger, the fights, even violence at times is due to the emotional immaturity that arises because of lack of attention and also an intense focus on studies that we forget the child as a whole. As the child grows up from the primary school, he or she should get a chance to learn about success, failure, good and bad, appropriate and inappropriate etc. Such things cannot be learnt overnight and not from books alone. These are acquired over a period of time with interactions among friends and teachers. An emotionally matured child would be able to handle himself or herself appropriately in a range of situations and this would be useful in the long run apart from education subject mastery alone.