Why this Kolavari di/da?

Have you ever uttered this famous and unique song when something goes wrong with you by other people. I have used di/da according to the gender of a person. If it is a male I would end with DA if it is female I would end it with DI.

Funny but true, its not only in love matter but we get dejected by many instance or situation which happened in daily life. I often utter this word to my wife with DI, when she is upset and make me upset too.

So, I thought why not it can be for DA (MALE), in work place if your co staff or your Boss, OR because of any male you are dejected or upset, we can say that Why this Kolavari da!

Today is some day when I am uttering - Why this Kolavari-kolavari DA!