Shadow manifests in everyone. They are your hidden desires.
Anima is what you want to be. Basically your dream. Literally. Anima is a means of achieving the shadow.
Anima means something that motivates you or sets you in motion.
Self, I needn't explain is what you actually are. Your conscience. These three "selfs" are always disputing sending you into confusion.
Just forget about everything and preserve your Self. Anima will find you soon.
The stronger a light shines the darker are the shadows around it.
By Determination one can Accomplish anything
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
I feel we shouldn't go by what others feel about us. As long as what we do is not harming anybody, we need not feel that we are doing a mistake. We have to be happy and we should make ourselves satisfied with our actions. Many people may not like our actions and but I feel we should not think about their liking as far as what we are doing is not an illegal act or harming the others.