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Life before marriage and after marriage
Posted Date: 18 Jul 2008 Posted By:: varun sharma Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 0 Points: 1
here is how I compare life before and after marriage when I talk with my wife
Offshore Before Marriage:
Get up by 9, get ready by 10, Speed (@ 70 kmph) in 50 mins to EC4 to reach by 1115 hrs
Call mom once or twice during the day
Do your work
Leave office by 2100 or 2130 to reach home by 2145 or 22:10 speeding again @ 70 kmph
Offshore after Marriage:
Get up @ 7, get ready by 9, Cruise (@ 40 kmph) in 90 mins to EC4 to reach office by 1045 or 1100 hrs
Call up wife once
Call up mom once
Call up wife 10 times
Do your work
Leave office by 2000 (sharp) Cruise (@ 40kmph) in 75 mins to reach home by 21:15
Onshore before Marriage:
Share Accommodation of a fully furnished apartment with a fellow Indian (may/maynot be ur colleague)
Get up @ 7, get ready by073, walk to office by 0815
Call up mom once a day
Do ur work
Leave office by sharp 1700, walk home by 1740, talk to mom, put fiancee to sleep and its still 2000 hrs
Go out for grocery etc shopping
Onshore After Marriage:
Rent an unfurnished apartment for a couple
Furnish the House with what u have got from India and buy everything else needed
Get up @ 7, get ready by 8 and reach office by 0830 or 0845 (sometimes)
Have Breakfast @ office
Call up mom once a day
Do ur work
Leave office by 1645 to get to home by 1715, talk to mom and u have all the time with ur wife to help her in cooking
Offshore before Marriage
Party with Friends
Offshore after Marriage
Go out with mom and wife
Give false hopes of meeting friends
Onshore before Marriage
Party with friends
Onshore After Marriage
Go shopping with your wife for groceries
still to add Life after children.. watch out for this section
|#20534 Author: k.srinivasan Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 0 Date: 19/Jul/2008 Rating: Points: 6|
Well said. Before marriage one can follow his thoughts. Mom shouts but who cares. But after marriage one has to always please his wife. Should ensure that she does not frown at things we do. In the process one has to do a lot of sacrifices after marriage. Life becomes restricted.
Before marriage, life is like a unbound orchid. After marriage it is a small garden with boundaries on all sides.
One feels more responsible after marriages. One can really feed the weight on his shoulders after marriage.
|#20541 Author: RajmiArun Member Level: Diamond Member Rank: 67 Date: 19/Jul/2008 Rating: Points: 3|
Oh thats a real good rewind you have done Varun Sharma. It is just the same for most of the men folk (of course exceptions are there definitely).
For woman the entire scenario changes.
|#20561 Author: varun sharma Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 0 Date: 19/Jul/2008 Rating: Points: 3|
Yes..u r true anusma... for men its just change of their activites but for a girl, its a new world.. new people, new home.. every thing seems to be changed like u have landed in an alien world....
|#20571 Author: Latha Jayaprakash Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 109 Date: 19/Jul/2008 Rating: Points: 6|
Do you know what all changes we make when we get married? Get into a whole new family where we just do not know what the traditions are, actually it is just nil for some new brides.
New husband, new in laws where everyone keeps watching you even for a small mistake you do.
You are supposed to get adjusted to their family overnight, forgetting your own parents, friends and relatives but the men are not supposed to. The girl is supposed to do all the sacrifice.
So the changes you do after we get into your lives doesn't make any sacrifice at all. all the times you men crib that you have got tied up and you are not able to do anything, you lost your freedom etc. Have your ever thought of a women's plight there?
|#20764 Author: vinayak Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 403 Date: 21/Jul/2008 Rating: Points: 6|
I want to suggest what is life before marriage & after marriage with a small example.
Boy :Yes.At last.It was so hard to wait.
Girl:Do u want me to leave?
Boy :NO! Don't even think about it.
Girl:Do u love me?
Boy :Of course! Over and over!
Girl: Have you ever cheated on me?
Boy: NO! Why are you even asking?
Girl: Will you kiss me?
Boy: Every chance I get!
Girl: Will you hit me?
Boy: Are you crazy! I"m not that kind of person!
Girl: Can I trust you?
just read it from bottom to top now.
|#20774 Author: Baljeet Member Level: Diamond Member Rank: 0 Date: 21/Jul/2008 Rating: Points: 6|
I think You are right. But what you have discussed is a guy's perspective, did you ever tried to find a girl's perspective.
Girl's Perspective Before Marriage
Have Your Breakfast
Go to Office
Call your parents once
Come Back from office
Prepare Breakfast for family
Prepare Lunch for Kids
Send Kids to School
Ask Husband to get up
Serve him Bed Tea
Help Husband to get ready for his office
She herself gets ready for her office
Go to Office
Call Husband-"I have reached"
Before having lunch, ask husband if he had lunch?
Then call kids, if they have reached home safely?
Ask kids if they have had their lunch?
Then, Have Lunch
Call several times at home to inquire about kids whereabouts
Get back Home
Help Kids in their Homw Work
Listen to Husband-How was his day and all.
Sleep at 1
Again get up at 6
You guys just see your own perspective. Girl's life changes much more than yours. So take care and Respect Women
|#20782 Author: vinayak Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 403 Date: 21/Jul/2008 Rating: Points: 2|
baljeet don't get angry it was just an obeservation we didn't have any intention to hurt u or any women.I respect the women a lot.
|#20802 Author: Latha Jayaprakash Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 109 Date: 21/Jul/2008 Rating: Points: 4|
It is not what you men say irritates us. It is the way you seem to think that marriage is a bond on your part and we women have nothing to lose.
We are the ones who lose everything, you just lose your freedom , that too only some of you. The rest just doesn't think of the hurt the wife goes through.
|#20808 Author: m.v. subba raju Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 256 Date: 21/Jul/2008 Rating: Points: 6|
What you said is correct but only to some extent.
I appreciate your sayings. What you said is exactly true. But who cares it. We think only from our side. Not from girl side. Many people say that it is their duty. But you have given the chart correctly. Here I am getting a doubt whether you are married or not. If married are you helping your wife or not.
This is all for fun. Don't take anything to heart. We are discussing only. These are all our feelings only.
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