#103002 Author: meena bahuguna Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 0 Date: 24/Aug/2009 Rating:  Points: 4 |
Hi,Pankaj
It does not matter who is earning more. main thing is understanding between husband and wife. They both should work if they want till they don't have any child. and what i think is if husband is doing good earning like that is enough for their domestic needs and saving then wife should stay at home to take care of their baby,husband and other domestic needs. Because if both work in the end of the day they both will be tired and no body will at home to take care of them even if you hired a maid. Because a maid won't take care of your baby and husband like a women can do. women should understand this thing herself. It should not happen that a husband forcing his wife to stay at home.
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#103088 Author:  Sapna Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 1078 Date: 25/Aug/2009 Rating: Points: 5 |
Husband is like financier who have all the funds and wife is like manager who manage everything for her family.
I think its much better if husband go out for work and wife stay at home with family. A woman is great lover everyone needs care from their mother or wife. What if a woman don't have time to take up her responsibilities.
On the other hand both husband and wife are responsible to take care of family. As I said husband duty is to earn but what if he is not able to fulfill the needs of the family! at that time wife should come forward to help him if she is capable. In the same sense if wife is not able to take care of family then husband should come forward to do so. Everything is depend upon the mutual understanding. Finance and family both are important so always try to make balance between both.
For a happy life never be so proud, always give respect what your partner is doing, never hurt your partner's feelings and the life will be happy for ever whether you are rich or poor all depends on understand and strong trust.
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#103179 Author: N K Ravishankara  Member Level: Diamond Member Rank: 10 Date: 25/Aug/2009 Rating: Points: 2 |
Ok, I agree both have to earn to live a happy and peaceful life, but how many husbands will maintain the same love and understanding when wife earns more than him, they are minorities in my view and ofcourse my wife is a housewife and still she earns more than me by giving Tutions, tailoring, etc.
N K Ravishankara
Lead Editor - Job section
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| #103234 Author: Mala Member Level: Diamond Member Rank: 107 Date: 25/Aug/2009 Rating: Points: 4 |
Hi,
Gone are the days when they said that men are bread winners. Today there is equal participation among both men and women. They are friends rather than couple and share in their financial difficulties.
The working of both men and women will give financial benefits to lead a good secured life. I do not think that even today we find such differences like men should earn more and women to be a housewife. Women are also equally strong now a days supportive to men. This is a matter of pride.
Best regards,
Mala.
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#103239 Author:  Amit Siwach Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 214 Date: 26/Aug/2009 Rating: Points: 5 |
Hi Friends,
In India there are variety of religions which support women in their ways. But off course now the scenario has changed and women take part in various fields.
This is their right if they have proper qualification to work then they should go for job and no one should object on any of them. I know there are so many Women in India who still believes that they can not work outside and only made for doing home chores.
This kind of ladies always stick to their religion and stay home. But the fact if a women has qualification then she should not be stopped working. This is totally depend on mutual understanding of spouses so as to make their family healthy and rich in all sense.
I believe if we neglect some stuffs of women then they are in better state to cultivate future of India.
Regards
Amit Siwach
ISC Gold Member
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#103244 Author:  PujaGupta Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 404 Date: 26/Aug/2009 Rating: Points: 5 |
Hello
First of all I want to say that in the today's scenario it become very difficult to survive as according to me money plays an important role in the survival of any family than there is no harm if woman goes out and earn money for the survival of family. On the other side it is also true that woman is a homemaker so it is her duty to maintain and take care of the home and the family members but today's woman know very well that how she can balance the both.
If the husband think that he is able to fulfill all the needs of the family than he can stop her wife to go out and work but think once a while that what happen if any wife said that she can earn much more money to fulfill the needs of the family so you stay at home and I will go out for making money.
Earn money is not the birth right of man every woman got education her parents spent so much money to make her self dependent and she also spend 2o-25 years of her life to become a self independent than according to me it is not a justice that she cannot use her knowledge for the betterment of her life and for her family.
With regards
Pooja Gupta
www.HaryanaSpider.com
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| #103288 Author: Naresh Kumar Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 1106 Date: 26/Aug/2009 Rating: Points: 5 |
If you are living in a cosmopolitan city like Delhi or Mumbai or Chennai, one man's earning is definitely not going to be of great help.
The cost of living and real estate prices have become so high that both husband and wife will need to support the family initially,so that the fruits of it can be enjoyed later.
From the time I married my wife, I never insisted my wife to work.
But she has been working out of her own will as women have their own personal committments like shopping and cosmetic purchases. For this reason,many women tend to work in order to be independent when it comes to their own spending's.
Every woman has their own right whether to work or not. If they work, it is a bonus in the monthly family income. If not,they can be a housewife as women are given the choice of their preference.
But a man cannot prefer to sit at home and sent his wife to work. That is disgusting. Man has to work forever in his life as that is his duty.
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| #103400 Author: R. JAYAPRAKASH Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 0 Date: 26/Aug/2009 Rating: Points: 3 |
When considering the current economical status of India, I think both men and women in the family need to go for job to lead a rich and happy life. After marriage woman may go for a job if the money earned by her husband is not more than enough to run her family. Who earns more? that is not a matter always. How much they have understood each other? and how they love each other were taken into consideration for successful running of the family.
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#104297 Author:  Santosh Kumar Singh Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 279 Date: 31/Aug/2009 Rating: Points: 1 |
i will allow if she want to do job in educational office like teaching, faculty etc other type of job i will not allow.
Santosh Kumar Singh
(Software Programmer,Ahmedabad)
Axapta code solution
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| #104721 Author: Madhusmita Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 198 Date: 02/Sep/2009 Rating: Points: 5 |
Woman can choose whether to do a job or to stay at home. Now a days women are also well educated, most are professionally qualified with a medical/engineering/management degree, so they may not prefer to sit at home. But they should think well which is to be given priority, family ( husband and especially if children are there) or career.
If you are in a joint family, and there are other members to take care of a child, then wife can continue with her job. But if not, and she has to take care of her child, then it is better to quit job and she can again start working after the child starts going to school.
Though our society is very modern now, somewhere people talk about these things like if wife earns more than husband. But in my view, this doesn't matter at all who earns more,if you are living in metros, you need a very good income to maintain a good lifestyle and if both husband and wife are contributing to this, then this is well and good. The main thing is the mutual understanding should be good enough to avoid these type of talks.
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| #105128 Author: Rajiv B Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 0 Date: 04/Sep/2009 Rating: Points: 2 |
Like men, women also have the right to earn for a living. There is nothing wrong with that. If both are working it'll be good for the family. You need a very good income especially if you live in metros.
- RB
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#105323 Author:  suchitra chandran Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 3662 Date: 06/Sep/2009 Rating: Points: 2 |
BRAVE AND COURAGEOUS.DEPEND ON FINANCIAL SITUATION.IT DEPENT ON THE INDIVIDUAL CAPABILITY NO DIFFERENT FOR BOY OR GIRLS.EXACTLY ONLY LOVE AND AFFECTIONCAN DECIDE ALL THE ABOVE THINGS.
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#105445 Author:  Ghulam Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 604 Date: 07/Sep/2009 Rating: Points: 5 |
Hi all,
identifying fundamental differences between men and women both physically and mentally is no more sexist than taking data showing blacks are more at risk for heart disease is racist.
you're just going to have to learn that people are different and there is nothing wrong with talking about it and identifying trends within these differences is not a bad thing. certainly don't expect that a broad generalization is going to be applicable 100% of the time.
While domestic responsibilities are slowly being divvied up more equally among men and women with the increasing prevalence of working moms and stay-at-home dads, there is plenty of evidence suggesting that women still shoulder most of the household and child-rearing responsibilities.
And regarding my wife, she would not face any such problem. not now and even in near Future.
Thanks.
Regards,
Ghulam
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| #105455 Author: N K Ravishankara Member Level: Diamond Member Rank: 10 Date: 07/Sep/2009 Rating: Points: 5 |
To have equal share according to them, I prefer women has to work irrespective of how much husband earns. This increases the self confidence and a feeling of sharing the burden will come to the mind of women which is very important for an good understanding between the two. Ofcourse there are few people who pushes women to work irrespective of her feelings and conditions, the word understanding and equality does not arrive here, it is only how much she earns is more important than how she struggles to earn, here more than equality the question of humanity is more important. In my case I have allowed my wife to work in what ever ethical way to gain freedom and independence, as nobody knows what happens to whom, atleast to keep in mind happenings of such untoward incidences in life one has to allow women to work.
N K Ravishankara
Lead Editor - Job section
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| #105495 Author: Meenasai Member Level: Silver Member Rank: 0 Date: 07/Sep/2009 Rating: Points: 5 |
To work or not to wotk, that is the question!
Its personal and depends on individuals . It also differs from individual to individual as the responses to this thread indicate. There isn't right or wrong answer to it. But, work should be done to lead a comfortable and convenient life not merely to satisfy insatiable desires. Husband and wife need to workout a plan for upbringing of their kids AND if the wife can work at home, I don't mean employment but work involved in taking care of kids and house at the cost of compromised spending at home or living; It is the best, as Kids need parents to be with them not the toys they are being flooded with by ever busy parents. Work at home is creative and requires multitasking. And, whatever said and done about newage dads,raising kids and home still is very much a prime responsibility of a mother.
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