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How to Avoid depressions that caused by parents and teachers? |
Posted Date: 27 Jan 2012 Posted By:: Harish Prasad Bhatt Member Level: Bronze Member Rank: 3840 Points: 1
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I am depressed due to the results and i can't study and have bad result in exams so what should i do to avoid this stress and be healthy.
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#283462 Author:  K Mohan Member Level: Platinum Member Rank: 4 Date: 27/Jan/2012 Rating:  Points: 3 |
Harish Prasad Bhatt never get depressed. Getting lesser or bad result in exam is the part of life and that is not the end of this life.Convince the parents that you will get better result next time and try to avoid meeting friends and concentrate fully on the studies and prove that you are comparable to none. Parents get depressed because they spent money on you expect perfect result from you.
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#283463 Author:  Sai Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 42 Date: 27/Jan/2012 Rating: Points: 3 |
Hello, please refer to the following thread for detailed views on a similar topic. It was a recent active Group discussion contest on the site and members have given out very detailed and informative views on the same topic.
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#283467 Author:  Vicky Member Level: Diamond Member Rank: 149 Date: 27/Jan/2012 Rating: Points: 4 |
Yes, it is very true that we have to face many criticism when we fail. But don't feel depressed. It is the time to rebuilt your concentration to work hard and alter the result in future. Yes, it is better to avoid meeting with friends and keep hundred percent concentration in your studies. Please, analyse your last preparation and try to list out the mistakes you committed earlier. Don't try to repeat them further. Don't feel shy to take help from your teachers for preparation. Without hesitation clarify your doubts and work hard then nobody will stop you to achieve your goal. All the best.
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Vicky
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| #283468 Author: Saji Ganesh Member Level: Gold Member Rank: 84 Date: 27/Jan/2012 Rating: Points: 5 |
Depression is a state of feeling dejected and neglected. It has got wider and serious implications than saying that you are sad. Depression is a psychological problem which requires immediate counseling. In a state of depression, you feel disgusted with everything, feel angry, like to remain alone and don't feel like doing anything.
In your case, I think you are just feeling dissatisfied with your results and the accompanying comments from your parents and teachers. Do not take anything to heart. Your parents and teachers must be feeling bad that you did not perform well though you had the capability of doing so. Don't worry. Take one or two days break from studies and spend some time to relax yourself. Go out with friends, enjoy a good movie, have some ice-creams and keep your books at bay. After that, talk to your parents and teachers and tell them if you are facing any problems. This will lighten your heart. Promise yourself that you are going to put in more effort and will be scoring better marks next time. Find time to relax in between. Everything will be OK. These are just passing phases of life. Take care.
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#283497 Author:  Iti Tyagi Member Level: Diamond Member Rank: 47 Date: 27/Jan/2012 Rating: Points: 4 |
Yes words are harsh specially when you are defeated, when we have performed badly, and we are sad, but what to do, this is the reality my friend.
And this is something which is not so uncommon, as failure s are the part of our life.
From the past seven months, I am lying on bed, hardly able to move because of my injury, I listen to the comments and depressing responses from many of my closed friends and family members, but what to do, we have to survive, and we have to improve, so that those who love us can meet us again.
So cheer up for the sake of that love which you get every day, unconditional at least from a single person.
Regards
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#283502 Author:  Ajai B Maliackal Member Level: Diamond Member Rank: 81 Date: 27/Jan/2012 Rating: Points: 4 |
In our life we will fail and we must not give up our confidence in our life. Try to work hard and concentrate more on your studies rather than spending more time for your friends. Failure is the stepping stone to success and we should give proper preparation so that we can win in our life.
Many of the students when they fail in their exam, often get depressed in their life. Parents may worry because they are spending more money for your education and we must give proper results so that you will have a good day in your life.
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| #283612 Author: Krishna Member Level: Bronze Member Rank: 2764 Date: 27/Jan/2012 Rating: Points: 5 |
Depression is a mental health condition that can manifest itself in many ways, such as pessimistic or self-destructive behavior, a lack of interest in life and even suicide attempts. From an adult's perspective, the life of a teen may seem free from the responsibilities and financial concerns that are common causes of stress and depression, but there are many other factors that can contribute to depression among teens.
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Relationships
Teen relationships, both romantic and friendships, are a potential source cause of a depressed mental state. Teens are usually inexperienced in relationships, and may not have the emotional maturity to appropriately handle complex problems. Teens are prone to deep infatuation and feelings of love, so a breakup with a boyfriend or girlfriend can cause tremendous emotional stress, which may lead to depression.
School
Problems with school can contribute greatly to depression among teenagers. There is often a lot of pressure on teens to perform well in classes from parents and teachers, so a failure to meet those expectations can cause emotional strain. Also, teens are often aware of the grades of other students---struggling with material that other students find easy can create feelings of inadequacy, which may contribute to depression.
Social Status
Teenagers face complex social environments, where the desire to fit in to a certain group can be of overriding importance. If a teen is rejected by a group that they want to fit into, or prohibited from being a part of a certain social group by a parent, it can contribute to depression. Pressure to wear certain clothes and maintain a certain style can also increase stress among teens, especially if that style is difficult to maintain due to their family's socio-economic status.
Bullying
Bullying is another factor that can cause depression among teens. Being picked on by a bully creates feelings of weakness and inadequacy and can make a teen afraid to go to school. Fear of being bullied can become thought consuming, causing the teen to lose focus on classes and activities that they enjoy. Since boys are often taught to be strong and not to express emotion, boys that are bullied may keep their problem a secret, allowing emotional stress to build, which can feed depression.
Family
A teen's environment at home plays a large role in their mental and emotional development. If parents place a lot of pressure on teens, forcing them to partake in extracurricular activities, leaving little time for fun or friends, it may contribute to depression. A harmful home environment, such as abusive parents or inadequate support from parents may also contribute to depression. The religious and political views of a family are another possible source of stress in teens.
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