Nobody is without problems. Problems of one or the other kind are being faced by everyone. Problems are integral part of life. Life is a mine of problems. One must be prepared to face ups and downs in life. It is the natural law of life. If you think that you should be comfortable through out your life and free of any problems, it is unnatural, problems do occur.This indicates that we should learn to live with problems. Allow them as slaves. Do not let them to be your master.
In fact problems are for our good only. Problems do not appear to frighten us. If a student feels that examination is a problem can he succeed? There is no work without a cause. Problems never end. You can not stop your work till a problem is solved another problem is generated. You have to continue to progress even during problems. Only thing is the problems should not interfere in the process of your progress. Facing problems is adventurous. You learn many things while you face problems. After you solve them you feel that they are not problems at all. Remember problems never tell and come. So , Its better to face them when they come.
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1. Treat problems as new opportunities:
Yes, it is true that its our way of thinking which matters a lot how the thing will be for you. If you thinking positive and taking Problems as an opportunities, it will be a new opportunity for you.
2. Problem bring us experience:
While you face the problem you get to learn lessons from each problem. Problems are for our advantages only. As you get experience, these problems are nothing.
3. No problem is greater than you:
It is the fact that all problem has the solutions around it. We just need to recognize the solutions once we get the solutions means that problem over, but when we do not get the solution we say a lot of things regarding everything. So no problem is greater than you. You are the master and all the problems are the slaves of yours.
4. Problem never end:
Well this is the reality when you are facing a problem you may get some new problems if you are not very much sure and careful during the solution of the first problem.
5. Understand the nature of the problem:
A problem may be small or big. One cannot ignore any problem. Problem is a problem. Then do not treat it as it is only troubling you. The problem is being faced by many. When once you consider problems then you will be capable of solving them also.
6. Do not magnify a problem:
You did not get a job. Does it mean that you will not get a job at all? No obviously not. Always we need to be positive negative thinking always magnifies the problems and which may lead to a big problems later.
7. Patience has a limit:
Luck never comes and knock your door. This is not the age of miracles.There is no short cut to success. There is a limit for your patience. The problem itself do not give a solution. You may lose the other opportunities. Patience may give good result, But no body works for you.
8. Do not aggravate a problem:
Don't be tensed try to be cool and calm. By getting tensed or stressed you can only increase the problems. To get the solutions you need to be calm.
9. Dynamic force:
An engine runs on fuel. Without fuel it is idle. So decide, never say that a work is not possible. Do not perturb your mind. Where there is will, there is a way.
10. Problems come and go:
As we know that the nothing is permanent in this world except "To Change". so to accept this fact we will have to face the new problems daily, we can not expect anything new until and unless we do not accept the change, during this problems will come and go. But if you are not careful that problem may hurt you.
|Author: Ruchi 20 Feb 2011||Member Level: Gold Points : 1|
A really nice article on how to actually face problems in life.
I appreciate the way, you presented the facts. You have done a commendable job.
Keep up the work!
|Author: The Junoon 20 Feb 2011||Member Level: Gold Points : 1|
|Thank you very much Ruchi ji,|
I hope just that i could do it regularly so that people could love their life. I just say "Love Your Life."
|Author: Sukhdev Singh 21 Feb 2011||Member Level: Platinum Points : 1|
|Dear Jeevan Kumar,|
Your approach to problems have been written with an analytical mind. The presentation is good. What one should do when one faces problems is well explained.