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How to make your relationship stronger with your partner after you have a baby?
Here in this article I have given a detailed information on how to strengthen up your relationship with your partner once you have a baby. It is very important to think about it and for this I have given tips like talking is important, dating at home, take help from a friend, some flirt is ok, be involved. These ways will surely strengthen your relationship forever, so keep on reading to know all the tips in detail.
Relationship after a baby :
I do agree that many things change after you have a baby. During the initial days it do feel great to have your little one so close to you and you and your partner do fell that you both are ready to take care of your baby, but later after some weeks or months you start realizing that with the additional responsibility of your newborn, it is get difficult to have the spark which you had from so many years before the baby. We live in the superstitious thought that after baby everything changes, but the fact is you have to apply some methods to have the strongest husband-wife relationship with your partner even if you having more then one kid. So lets see have you can establish an ever-lasting relationship with your life-partner.
1. Talking is important
It is true that after having your little one in your arms, you hardly get time to have a good amount of time to sit and talk with your partner. But if you get the trick to manage your time well, then it will be not a problem. Small babies love to sleep; so you simply have to make him sleep after his feed, then make it a habit to talk with your partner whenever possible. If your partner is not at home, then call him and ask about the day and what is had? These small gestures will do the trick and evenyour partner will feel that he is still in your mind; that will be enough. And also make it a points to talk about new things, don't stick to baby talk only, that will be not a good idea.
2. Dating anytime :
I really don't agree that you have to get ready with the best dress and have to go to a restaurant for a date. And if you have a small baby to take care of, then it is all the more difficult to eve tinker about it. But who said that you cannot date your partner after a baby. If you got the time and your partner is by your side, then simply cook some light snack, or you can order it from outside restaurants. And even in your pajamas you can have the best dating experience at the comfort of your home with your new baby in your life. And if you get we little time, then a simple cup of tea or coffers will do the trick. It is really not about the setup, it is about you being with your partner side by side.
3. Take help from a friend :
If you are breastfeeding your baby, then for this trick you have to be accessible whenever you go out with your partner. And if you are bottle-feeding your baby, then I think your baby can be taken care by your friends or any family member. If your baby can get manage by other family members or your friend, then it is an good idea to leave your small baby with the person who will take care of him for sometime when you are out with your partner. This small outing with your partner will boost a new life in your relationship which is very important. If you are insecure to leave your baby, then plan to go somewhere near to your home, so that you can reach home as soon as possible and also call the person to ask about the baby. But don't do that often, this might upset your partner, as he will think that even you are out with him, still your mind is with the baby.
4. Some flirt is ok :
Who says that it is not appropriate to flirt with your own partner when you have the responsibility of a new baby. I really don't agree with the above words. Indeed I would say that you should have that healthy flirting going on with your partner whenever possible. It is true that you and your partner are well equipped with so many work and new responsibilities, but that really doesn't mean you have to forget that you and your partner share a very sweet and sensitive relationship; which do need a boost now and then, so a sweet smile, your expressive gestures will let the other person know that we still are newly married couples, so keep the flirting going on.
5.Be totally involved :
We have a view that a mother should be responsible of the baby; but that is not true, the male can also offer help that will be the biggest gift for the women and also try to adjust with the small changes that is getting regular because of the baby. You should understand that it is the responsibility of both the partner to take care of the baby. If you offer small help to your partner will help make your relationship stronger. This hectic times can be made beautiful if you are ready to understand your partner in every possible manner. With the understanding, if you help with the basic needs of the baby, then even your partner will get some relief and timeout and also you will get alot of brownie points to be happy always with each other.
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|Author: sunil dahiya 06 Oct 2012||Member Level: Silver Points : 1|
|Very informative article this is and thanks for sharing this article with us. It is very true after having a baby a lot of thing has been changed but it also depends upon the partner and their understanding with each other.|
|Author: Bharath Kumar 08 Oct 2012||Member Level: Silver Points : 0|
Really it's a good article because after baby responsibility increases. It would be hard to give time for other partner. These tips are really helpful.
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