IntroductionChanges are bound to happen. Because nothing in life will remain constant, as time is running, we are also coming across multiple changes. But there is this something inside us that resists us to accept the change that we have to undergo. From our childhood to adults, we face a lot of changes. We can say change is a part of our life, that helps us survive, changes our thoughts from our looks to almost many things. We also learn to accept changes. Because if we do not do it, it will be hard to survive. So, we accept the changes and keep moving in life, make it a habit in us. There are certain times when we find it hard enough to accept a changing situation related to our personal or professional life. Why are we not able to accept those changes and how can we improve ourselves to accept changes in life?
Below are the possible reasons that do not allow us to accept change
These are some ways we can follow to accept change in our day to day life.
Conclusion:On the ending note, I would just say learn to accept change to live a happy life. Understand that change will happen and is an essential part of our life and our growth. It will teach us, impart knowledge in its own way. Time brings in change for us and we experience a chance to learn more.
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A nice article about the Change. We all know that nothing in this universe is static and everything is dynamic. So changes are inevitable. We have to accept the changes and we should adjust ourselves to the changes that are happening. We can't be resistant to changes. We should go with the wind. When we are in Rome we should behave like Romans. We can't say we will not. We have to learn to change and continue our living. There will be many changes in our life not only physical cham]nges but also other changes. We should be capable of accepting these changes. Many people get worried about a change. This is mainly because of fear of survival and not to move out of comfort zone. Generally, when we are doing good and everything seems to be alright in this life nobody wants to have a change. They think that taking the risk by changing is very difficult at that stage. But if we are confident of our skills and knowledge we should think that a change is giving us an opportunity to learn more and we should think there is a lot in the store which we can get by this change. Once you have this kind of positive mindset you will never hesitate to have a change. The author has brought the reason for not accepting the change and how to do it in a very pleasant way. A good reading.
Excellent article about a true problem with humans and their mindset. Change? Why now is the common question asked and many of us resist change rather than embrace it.
It is important to realize that change is the way forward, accepting and going along with change ensures our survival and well being. The more we resist, the more we stand to lose because of the simple fact that 'Change is inevitable and is one of the few constant factors in our lives'. There are a couple of key facts that I would like to add here:
1.Comfort Zone- I think one of the important reasons why people do not change is the truth that 'They do not want to step out their comfort zone.' and 'The fear of losing what they have in hand in exchange for a newer version that is yet to reach their hands'.Many of us feel safe in our rather predictable life because many things are under our control.
2.Change is not a challenge or threat- Many of us mistake change for a challenge or even a threat to our current existence (job, salary, lifestyle etc).
3.Change is the path to our future- I think the sooner we realize that change is good for us and is the future, the easier it becomes to embrace change.
Change is the law of nature and we have it in our life whether we like it or not. The author has given a good narration to understand change and how to cope up with it.
In my perception, we avoid or resist change because we are either afraid that we will have to toil more or it does not appear remunerative to us. In any case we see it as our enemy. We do not want to surrender to it.When the post-change scenario appears lucrative to us, we simply jump in it without seeing the pros and cons. We take random risks in such situations. I feel it is the inherent psychology of human beings to change their selves for tempting things but resist the doubtful or unrewarding offers.