I am writing abouts how we can be cautious about our kids development (physcical, mental and emotional development) right from when they are born and sometimes even before they are born!!
I am mother of cute little 2 and half year son and i want to share this experience with all.
there is something called Garbha sanskar conducted by manashakti.org where mothers cultivate good things in their child when they are in wombs itself. it has done wonders for my son. i had done all related activities and today i am proud to tell that my son is and will remain bit intelligent then most of other kids today.
there are activities to mould child behaviour after birth also.
Physical needs of child are always met by parents. but we fail to neglect emotional and mental development of child saying they dont understand anything at small age. But fact is brain of child grows as fastest rate till he/she is of 4 years of age. All values, things we teach to child within this age is life long.
i myself taught my kid numbers, alphabets, poems, pictures and all kinds of educational stuff taught at nursery today since he was 1 yr old. and there was drastic grasping in him. Credit goes to garbha sanskar due to which brain developement took place.
then i bought lot of books for him and also some kids magazine. Please dont expect that when you teach something to your child, he will be immediately intersted or will come to know. every child has his/her capacity.
In all this, emotional aspect is most important. Kids observe you, your family. if they sense that you people are not happy, it may automatically stop him from developing furthre.
So as parents change your attitude first and it will automatically come to your child.Also respect them and things will be easier for them and you.
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| Author: shanti Priya 12 Oct 2009 | Member Level: Gold Points : 2 |
Hi Madhura!
Thank you for the valuable you have posted. I keep looking for such info as i have my 3 years old son. As you have said he has got good grasping power. But it is difficult for us to make him sit at one place and make him study or feed him. Can you suggest anything? I keep telling him with all the love and patience.but still he doesn't listen.
Thanks
Regards
Shanti
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| Author: KURMADASU MURALIDHAR 12 Oct 2009 | Member Level: Gold Points : 1 |
Dear Madhura,
Thanks a lot, really wonderful stuff you have given. I will forward this to all my friends. Thanks again.
Murali
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| Author: Nilesh Panchal 12 Oct 2009 | Member Level: Platinum Points : 2 |
Hi Madhura,
Impressed with your article. Yes you are right, the role of a parent, in the current scenario, goes beyond being a care giver and provider. Today they play the role of teacher, counselor, role model, guardian, and friend.
With the advent of the net age, they now done the role of watchdog too as the spurt in technology and information has given rise to a breed of children who want to know why, where, when and how - of everything. The parents role has thus became extremely challenging and precarious and as you all know, its a trial and error process, all the way!
If I write about my baby girl, she will be completing her 3 years on 31st October, is very alert and active. Her capacity to grasping things is triple then me. She easily understand what I mean to say it is because as a father I too make her learn things in her way meaning I become her sister child and explain things which makes her learn fast and obey me.
Shanti, you say that your son is very bully, please do not get upset or angry. If you expect your child to behave like you then its very wrong. You have to work with her in his way so that he starts following you, if he is running all around for eating then let him be first hungry properly so that he himself come to you and ask for food.
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| Author: suresh 14 Oct 2009 | Member Level: Silver Points : 1 |
the two ways to motivate kids are Let Them Know How Proud You Are and Reward them frequently
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| Author: Madhura Tikekar 14 Oct 2009 | Member Level: Gold Points : 2 |
Hello Shanti,
Kids play around whenever they want and till time they dont get bored. Normally research says that kids may become active in particular activity only for 15 minnute!! :(
So, if your child is playing something else dont force him to do what you want at that moment. May be when he is bored of playing toys, you may bring him a new book and tell him that it is for him only!
Book must be colourful attractive. When he is attracted to that book, he will take care of that book himself and also sit with you and pay attention to it. Just smile with him as he reads the book. If he is distracted, let him finish and then he will again come back to you!!
I will suggest you to buy Magic pot magazine which comes 2 times in month. You get that in any book store in Mumbai. if you want to subscribe online, you can visit manoramaonline.com for same.
Magic pot has got colourful and attractive stories, learning ways so that your child will stick to one place atleast for an half an hour!!
And thanks to all for their appreciations!!
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