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Is your relationship flashing warning signs? Are you in a relationship that you have some doubts


Posted Date: 31 Jan 2008    Resource Type: Articles/Knowledge Sharing    Category: General
Author: Sushil Kumar PatialMember Level: Gold    
Rating: Points: 5




Sign 1 No shared Vision
The first warning sign is if you want to lead different lives. Ask yourself: Do my partner and I have a clear picture of what we want in life? Do we have common goals for our future together? If not, it is not a shared vision.

Sign 2 Different Values
A huge warning sign is having different values. Do you know each other’s values? Do you both love children, tell the truth, believe in fidelity, are both frugal, etc.

Sign 3 Individual Mission
A warning sign is when one person has no direction or purpose to their life. Do you know each other’s mission? Are you both aware that you have special talents and gifts and are you prepared to wholeheartedly support each other in using them?

Sign 4 Successful as a single
A big warning sign is if one of you is needy. Have both of you been happy and successful as singles? Do you know how to be alone and how to make yourself happy? Are you looking for someone to make you happy? Are you seeking a partner out of desperation or need?

Sign 5 Blast from the past
Carrying baggage from the past is a big warning sign. Have you both cleaned up your baggage from the past? Are either of you controlled by an ex? Do you have strategies in place about how you will deal with people from your past (parents, friends, co-workers) but you will not let your past rule your present?

Sign 6 Insufficient communication
When you are not talking about your issues, the problem begins. Do you know how to have the ‘hard’ talks without hurting each other? Do you know how to create a safe place to express what you need and want? Example: you do not accuse, you inform.

Sign 7 Negative approach
Negative words are warning signs. Do you spend most of your time validating each other? Do you recognise the skills and talents each of you have and remind your partner of them?

Sign 8 Bad-mouthing
When you are complaining about your partner to others, you’re inviting troubles in your relationship. Do you speak harshly or negatively about each other to other people? If you have issues, do you discuss them?

Sign 9 Commitment issues
Commitment issues are warning signs. Are you both in this relationship for the long haul? Do you both know it is not okay to have other romantic interests on the side?

Sign 10 No gratitude
Do you feel grateful about your relationship? Do you think your partner is the most fabulous person in the world and are you grateful everyday that




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