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Taking a woman to the altar is an important
aspect of a man's life that shouldn't be taken
lightly. In a courtship, you watch out for as many
things as you can discover. I don't think that the
issue of a woman coming from a broken house
should stand in her way of a happy marriage but
some men disagreed with me. To them, a child
from a broken home may not have a successful
home too. That's their view and not mine. There
is no need forcing a man to buy what he doesn't
like. But I will stick to the idea of a woman having
good friends.
“A bad company is not good for any woman,
even a man. A good lady would be corrupted by
bad friends. You can have friends but you should
not allow them control you or your affairs. Moreover,
this should serve as a lesson to ladies. Know
what you say to your partners. Men don't joke
with their mothers, why make silly comments on
a sensitive issue like that? Will you wish your
mother dead? You don't have to talk ill of any of
his family members either. Being in a courtship
is an avenue to showcase where you come from
and how you were brought up. In fact, most men
judge you with how your mother is! Please try
and caution any of your parents on any acts that
could make you lose a good man.
Below are the things a guy should do before marriage:
(i) Watch her traits of fidelity;
(ii) Watch her words;
(iii) Watch her friends;
(iv) Dig deep into her past and accept what you can accpet or regect
what you think you cannot bear before marriage;and
(v) Watch her parental background.
If you follow this steps you would've solve at least some
of the problems that will be encountered after marriage. Remember marriage
is an institution it is easy to go into but diffucult to go out.
So look before you leep.
Olufemi
Nigeria
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