To have a peaceful life after marriage the following few points may be followed
First we should be frank, if any mistakes or incidents which we had in the past should be told to the other before marriage or atleast immediately after marriage, so that it will make the partner a good impression that partner will not cheat.
Try to love the partner from heart not from your lips (i.e. just by saying).
Try to express your feelings as frequently as you can. Love should be expressed.
Forgiveness is very important.
Respect each other and respect the relatives of partner.
Never say bad words on back of the partner about the partner or about relatives of partner.
Try to praise the good qualities in the partner. Try to forget the bad qualities of the partner.
Don't forget birthday of the partner and try to surprise them by giving gifts. It needed not be costly, but it should impress the partner.
Try to encourage the partner in their career.
Always take advice from the partner.
Discuss family issues before telling the relatives on any issue.
Adjust yourself to the partners wish and will.
Subba Raju, MVIIT students Club Hindu Temples in India