Why are divorce cases in India increasing and how to reduce them?

Hi,

Divorce is a legal separation of two spouses . The procedure differ from one government to another . Countries like U.S and Sweden , the divorce rate is high . Compared to those countries in India it was low but now a days it has increased because India is a developing country . Most of the divorce cases were found in metropolis.

Their are many reasons for divorce . Some of them are :

1. Most of the women were forced to get marry .Their individuality is not consider , they were unable to bare the torture done to them.
2. Still some of the men perception towards women has not changed. They consider women were meant only to kitchen.
3. In India dowry is a big problem . Many people fought to end this problem but still it is continuing.
4. Affair is another cause which leads to entrust between them.
5. No proper communication between them.
6. Most of the love marriages are unsucessful in India because from olden days it was a tradition to do arrange marriages and most of them were successful . If any problem occurs in between them both the family talk and settle their dispute but in love marriages parents were not involved and no one will be their to settel the dispute they were individual.
7. Most of the problems are in urban society and less in rural society.
8. In urban society people have enough money to enjoy their life . Both of them don't have time to spend with each other.
9. In rural society it is comparative less because most of them are arrange marriages.
10. Females are more educated and known of their rights . They don't leisen to their husband.

Their are reasons to reduce divorce case :

1. Understand each other.
2. Proper communication should be their.
3. Females should be given equal right regarding their marriage decision.
4. Ego problem should not be their.
5. One should be trust worth to other.

Regards,

Sree.

Yes, Divorce cases are on the increase side in our country these days.

1. Earlier, females were totally dependent on their husbands from the financial point of view. They were mostly less educated than the husbands and maintained low profile always. They had no other alternative but to bear their husbands with whatever bad qualities they had. They were afraid of bringing out the issue to their own family or in public because of fear of break-up of marriage.

2. These days we find both the couples are equally qualified, or may be one of the spouse is over qualified than the husband and employed. Such couples get married in hurry without thinking about the consequences. Over a period of time they become egoistic, and the clash begins. If either of them is understanding, fine, they can save their marriage. But in case both are egoistic, arguments continues day after day and finally ends in break-up.

3.Lack of trust between the couple ins the main cause for divorce. Matters can be sorted out amicably in the event of misunderstandings.

4.Last but not the least, it is the extra marital affairs that leads to divorce in many cases.

To avoid extra-marital affairs, husband and wife both must be caring to each other, understand their feelings, likes and dislikes and make the bond stronger.

Hello,

Your first question- What are the possible reasons behind the increasing rate of divorce in India?
1) Modern society- creates very much attraction to the fashion and demotes the social values. And when there is a fall in social values then relation always pay for it and hence divorce come into existence.
2)Impatient Attitude: Impatient attitude invites tense enviornment and through this fights happen in the couple.
3)Freedom- Both the partners have same amount of freedom but if any partner demands extra freedom at that points doubts knocks.
4)Stressful Life: Today both the partners need to work only then they can run a smooth life. This brings stress in their life because they both hardly give time to each other.
5)Feeling lonely: In Nuclear families if one partner is working and other stays at home that creates loneliness for non working partner specially when the other partner is quite busy and pressurize professional life.
6)The rate of divorce is much higher in Love marriages. Because here the expectation from partner does not remain the same. And hence collision of relation.
7) Dowry: Well dowry play a role of devil. So where there is a devil people suffered. In this case mostly Wife pays a lot.
8) Responsibilities of a child: If both are working then mostly the couple fights for the responsibilities for the child. Here child always pays.
9)Extra Marital Affairs: This reason are the most common in urban cities, don't know why the people find love in others. A feeling of cheating comes in other partner and hence divorce.
10)Lack of communication: After marriage the transparency is the main key for successful life but if you donot maintain it then relation breaks. And to maintain this transparency you need discuss on each and every topic.

How we can reduce this rate of divorce:
1) Express your love with your partner.
2) Effective communication .
3) Appreciation for the partner's work.
4) Moral Support.
5)Ability to listen.
6) Control on anger.
7) Understand the responsibility of the children is not only on one partner but they both have to do this responsibility.
8)Control on your expenses that you do just for maintaining your society standards.
9)Never look for love outside from your relation. Your wife / husband can give you real love and he/she is the person who advice you, support and share your feelings with you much better.
10) Love each other and give respect to each other. Give some space to each other. Because every individual has different personality needs space for himself/ herself. so respect that space.

Thanks
Bhawna