How to deal with feeling discomfort with my fiance and be happy with impeding marriage?
Having conflicting feelings about your fiance? Go through the views expressed in the responses below on dealing with such a situation.
I am 25 years old girl pursuing M.tech. engaged in February of this year. Its an arranged marriage. My fiance is an engineer working for a multinational company. My marriage has been fixed in the month of January by my parents. At that time, they had asked me about my opinion. Though I was not much comfortable, I gave my positive feedback as everything was good except his height which is exactly same as that of mine. I consoled myself saying nobody is perfect. We were far away from each other so phone call was only way to connect. Eight days before our engagement we had a comfortable talk and first time I felt like, yes I am ready to get engaged. I was very happy on my engagement ceremony. After engagement hardly 10 days I was enjoying each and every moment. After that he started to reduce talking on phone giving reason that he is too exhausted. Once I asked about it, he answered me, 'you are failing in keeping me awake'. Still I was trying for a good conversation. I have noticed that he is very happy mainly to do sexual chat. Now everything is going good. He is very happy being with me as he told me but I'm not. Something is going wrong in my place. We are getting married in three months. I am trying to come out of this situation. I want to feel blessed and loved and not feel disomfort and have doubts. Please guide me to deal with my conflicting feelings.