In recent years, irrespective of religion,caste etc., even arranged, love marriages arel in the queue before the Magistrate of Family courts with lack of understanding and lakhs of misunderstandings. Only proper understanding is there and give and take policies are there the religion and caste wont do anything, otherwise the problems will get creeped between the couples and even contaminated to children. A friend of mine(muslim)fell in love with a brahmin girl. I, on hearing this news, called both of them and told to continue in love only if they have real interest themselves, and real confidence of marrying. Both of them were very confident and got married in a register office and went to Coimbatore after getting a job there. Later after a gap of some months, I happened to visit coimbatore on my office work I remember them and went to their house and got totally astonished. They found living with total understanding by having picture of Gods of both sides, he, the muslim boy totally dropped his non-vegetarian habit, making their child in vegetarianism. Unless otherwise such understanding is there, not even arranged marriage will get withstand.