Depression caused after marriage
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I am an 27 yr old women.i got married 8 months back and my mother in law is an arthritis patient. After marriage, her behavior was very weird, that every night she used to wake us up saying she got some headache and stomach pain etc creating nonsense. We are unable to predict her behavior. She is not accepting me as daughter in law, inspite of caring for her so well. So I got frustrated one day and argued with my husband about this behavior. We decided to keep her in a separate house, as she is getting irritated every time in my presence. Now my husband, in his terms, some times arguing that what she made is a mistake and some times he says because of you I kept my mother separately. We have been quarrelling about this issue for about 4 months and there is no peace of mind.
He says that he couldn't change his mother's mind to accept me. Instead he is saying me to adjust with his mother at any cost. Me and my parents are depressed a lot about my marriage life and confused whether to stay in relationship or not. They are not demanding any money or any requirement inspite of asking them many times.
What to do?