The situation regarding family status.
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On the second thought we both know that it is going to be tough for us to convince our parents for marriage but I told our parents and they both agreed on my choice. When she told to her aunt first she disagreed but after talking to me she agreed.
The turning point came when she told her mummy and Elder brother they both said that our family status didn't match we are not ready to marry with me. They even didnt try to talk with me and she is also getting irritated day by day because my family lives in city and her family lives in village. My father is running a Pharmaceutical business and her brother is running a dairy business. Therry got elder sister to marry to some truck driver. Her sister is forcing her to say no to me. When she told this I was shocked and she is now out of her mind. I tried a lot to convince her so that she can try and convince her brother to talk to me and my parents so that every thing can be done by sitting infront of everyone but her brother is not ready to understand. He is stuck to the single mentality tha we are rich and high class and they are poor villagers and they are not comfortable with our family.
I told this situation to my parents they are even ready to take the initial steps of talking to her brother and telling me that what if her brother still does not agree with this praposal then you have to move back but I love her a lot and I want to marry her by maintaining the reputation of both the family. We both are very much confused. My father tried to ask one in our family which can become as a mediator to both the family but the person is playing game and is intrested in knowing how we met, how do we know each other.
My father is still supporting me and ready to start a talk from his side but still he is having a second thought what if her brother rejects.
The matter is totally confuse and don't know what to do and how to convince her family and also maintain the reputation of both families.
Please help me with this ?