I have gone through your details and what I inferred is that you were not thinking other than achieving your goal to qualify the UPSC examination and in that process, you have already lost six attempts. By going through your submissions, I would like to as a few points which could suit your aspirations even though it is not necessarily linked to fulfilling your IAS goal though it could be your primary focus. The suggestions are as follows-
1) If you are sincere enough to crack this examination, you need to modify the method of your preparation with the inclusion of some subjects such as Philosophy, History, Geography etc though such subjects had not been your optional papers at the stage of your graduation but such selection of subjects makes sense since these are scoring subjects.
2) For better guidance, enrol yourself in a reputed coaching institution such as Rao's study circle where you would get assistance at each stage of your preparation. They can evaluate your papers of mock tests reflecting your strength and weakness. Such a close monitoring from their end would restore your confidence to achieve your ambition towards Civil Service.
3) Side by side side think of other goals where you could feel comfortable such as joining a coaching institution as a lecturer where they are imparting management education to the aspirants. This is one of the examples. If you want to join as a teaching profession as a tutor. You could take up the same.
4) The other best option could be to secure some advanced diploma relating to some IT languages such as Oracle, Artificial Intelligence, Java etc so that you could enhance your value in the IT sector and with your determined plannings, you could be successful to land in a job.