Hesitation - a secret hindrance towards growthHesitation - seems short, but is a big word in itself, meaning when you know everything but you are somehow afraid to speak. I have been a big victim of hesitation. It not only impacts growth but also you gather a lot of rubbish in your mind. Hesitation kills confidence.
This can also be called as a 'secret' or a 'quiet hindrance' towards growth of a person. When you do not know much on a topic or something, and you want to ask someone, but you get this one thing in mind, what will he think if I ask him, or will he make fun of me? How will I be able to manage that?
These so many questions that strike to our mind that particular time and our mind stops us to not ask this and says to us, "Do not know this now if its tough, you can ask later on, don't you?" This is a symbol of hesitation, also of getting the fear of being depreciated in front of someone else. This is the main thing that becomes the cause of also having not a clear mind, a mind which gathers anything that comes in it, and does not clarify on any issue.
We need to cleanse our thoughts and our mind for a good and positive growth, and for that we need to remove this worm of Hesitation from ourselves. In order to do it, we can practice some good things :
1. Always keep saying to yourself "I am and I can." There is nothing in this world which is difficult to achieve, we humans carry the great powers in our self, the power to bring in change.
2. Say your opinion to others, and do not think of what the other person is going to think.
Every body has full right to put forward their opinions.
3. Always have this thought in your mind, everybody have their opinions and similarly I have mine, there is simply no harm in it.
4. Be true to yourself. Love your instincts, try and remove the word "fear" from your dictionary.
5. Meditate a lot to develop more self confidence.
These few steps when tried can really help a lot. We need to remove this problem of hesitation to achieve great things in life. Be positive and hopeful, it kills the negative aura.