Be a judge, not a lawyer.A lawyer always argues on behalf his client only by getting some witnesses and other proofs. Always his lookout will be how to counter the arguments of the other side Lawyer. For him always it is important that his client should win. But a judge will look into the facts and figures of the case and try to see that the merit get the justice. His pursuit will be always to prevail upon the truth. He will go on the issue but not on the individual.
These days when the issue comes we all will try to project what we think as correct. Many factors will influence our thought process and we all look how to prove that we are correct. The other person will also think the same. But it is better to be a judge and try to see that truth and fact remains. Don't take sides and bury the truth and fact underground.
What is your idea friends?