These two qualities decide the nature i. e., good or bad.
No matter how much we have progressed world wide, our thoughts are still in back foot. We are belong to a conservative background, we always think of the world around us before we utter something. The reason, we have fear in us that people should not "tag" them having negative nature. We (most of us) wants to show ourself a "good person", while communicating with so called knowledgeable society. We want to show how "good" we think for others and ourselves. No, one wants to become "bad" or negative, no matter how negatively they behave with their close one.
We have seen and will see, people takes no time to judge others without even knowing the truth. Most of us run to judge people with their "half truth knowledge". The reason, they do not want to be "tagged' like people who straight way talks and point out the mistakes without caring what people will say about him/her.
As far as I am concern, I don't want to be a good man just on paper or in some people's eyes. I don't care what people around me think or tag me in some special words. I speak, whenever it required. My only feeling which runs within me that, If I am correct, I should not bother about anything.
Wonderful post. Feelings, passion, desire and obsession all are inter-related, as humans we should know when feelings move on to the next level where in it causes damage to the self and people around us. If man is able to make this important differentiation then it's easy to differentiate between Good and Bad Feelings.
The perspective also changes based on the person and the environment he or she is in. For instance a businessman sitting in his office striking a deal will be thinking of earning crores and this would be a good feeling for him. At the same moment a holy man sitting in his Mutt would not think the same about earning money, in his view it is wrong or bad.
Lastly it depends on the age of the individual also, for instance, if a 4 year old child of the neighbor walks up to us expresses his/her feelings 'I love you' Unlce/Aunty, we would feel happy. The same can't be done by an adult.
So, we all have feelings, whether it's Good or Bad, we are and should be responsible for them. Anything in excess would also not be good, anything that makes us lose touch with reality is also not welcome. If the feelings start disturbing our focus, concentration at work, start inducing noticeable changes in us, then it would be bad. Feeling sad should not move on to becoming depressions, Liking a person or attracted towards someone should not move up to stalking or getting obsessed with them,
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Everything is correct and nothing is wrong until your heart does not allow it. Since we are human beings, we are made to have feelings for all, and carry it inside us.
Do what inspires you !!