Tame us. To make us all tolerable. We have no choice but to obey the morals and live as a duty.
As for our opinions are concerned, we hate embarrassment so much that we rather remain ignorant.
The stronger a light shines the darker are the shadows around it.
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
I have my strong opinions on certain topics, which I follow. While in most of the cases when I forget things and people say that you did not do it, I keep a kind of written email for it and show them as proof that I really did not forget it and did it, to let them know that I am not such a stupid person as being felt.
Do what inspires you !!
Even while writing a letter this attitude can be seen entering into our usage of words. So in every man/ woman there are two faces.
The same is practised by us by our conscious mind. Initially any child will be straight in action and reaction. By and by the experience teach it to react, respond or remain silent depending on previous experiences and projections.
Even 'right' is also relative. If two persons stand at head and tail of number '9' one will read it as nine and the other will read it as six. Both are right. Many times 'right; also relates to one's own presumptions and bias. Generally that which favours us will be right for us, and that which is against us is taken as wrong.
It is still an ideal utopia to see a person totally unbiased and unattached in its strictest sense. But the position is subject to change and individuals differ on the degree of bias or attachment.