These days there is no place for compassion except for money. People will give an excuse that they didn't have time because they are busy with their work. That's a very lame excuse a person can give to spend time with the family. Such people always have time for everything but not family. I feel where the world is going sometimes by seeing or listening to such stories. Saddens me a lot.
Dr. V. Shashikanth
Now, both have retired, suddenly find time at plenty, at 65, boredom catches up and I think, he is repenting for the mistakes. I think, as we age, we tend to give up the grudges and forgive people. Hence, you or others close to them can mend the relationships now and have a pleasant company now. Who knows, you might even become good friends and support each other at times of need. It would be disheartening to find oneself in such a situation being alone, more so when illness or disability strikes people at this age.
Relations are created and maintained with love and care, then only they can be nurtured with affection. Then only others will remember us if we help them in need. We play a role in their life just by being with them in their sad moments. Then one could conquer other's hearts. These are the ways good relationships are maintained with everyone.
Some people are so much occupied with their work that they do not care even about their family members. Such people need a proper response from others about their so-called selfish behavior.
Do what inspires you !!
'Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum "
Even this challenging situation would ease
Youngster thinks that they can never have a happy life if they're old parents will stay with them.Such youngsters are the reason for the existence of old age home. But God always punishes the wrong person. There exist give and take relation in this world. The respect and love we give to our parents, we take the same respect and love back.